Have you seen that movie? What do you think?

it was difficult to follow the first,,, I just don't think they can ever reach that peak of the elevator kiss or first spanking again.

but Its always sexy to watch Dournan and Johnson simulate the dominant/submissive relationship with actual 'love' thrown in.

I am not sure about trying to add in another dom as protagonist, we will see.

I have not seen either of the movies but I read the first book a while back and I really did not like it. The author is horrible at character building and I could not even bring myself to finish it. Plus is was a little more ____than I wanted to read.

That first movie was on tv recently and watched a bit of it. What a crappy movie. I just rolled my eyes. Waste of time.

I'm waiting for the follow up. " 50 shades of black & blue" where she wrestles the whip from the guy and whips the living s**t out of him.. cause those "love taps" he was giving her... hurt

thats what safe words are for,, her silliness for literally pleading with him to experience it,,,,and under her control to end it

I suppose soo.. as long as they don't have the ball gag in their mouth.. could be a bit hard getting that word out ;)

true, than they have to have a signal instead,,

yes.. true.. and one comes to mind... most fitting under those circumstances.

I find the whole thing idiotic

bondage and violence have no place in the bedroom

Nope.. not at all.2 totally different mind sets.. and mine is not at the first one.. pain is not.. good.. don't care how it is packaged.

ciao a tutti!!!

people enjoy boxing matches,, and football, they are violent,,,

its about chasing the adrenaline

heightening the senses can heighten the big O

and then I don't consider spanking 'violent', especially if one can ask for it or ask for it to stop

its all in perception and control.

people enjoy watching violence but are they also getting aroused during a boxing match or kickboxing or football?


does not exactly equate violence with sex now does it?

the most direct equation for sex is AROUSAL

arousal/stimulation, manifest in an adrenaline rush

so if people get a RUSH watching violence where people are causing bodily harm to each other, I just dont consider it farfetched for people to get a RUSH from the heightened sensations between a dom and sub,,,,

violence is a different issue, because, as I said, for me there is a huge difference betweeen lets say a man punching me in my face (causing me bodily injury) and a man swatting my behind,,,particularly if (as in Christians case) I LITERALLY ask him to.


it just all comes down to different strokes for different folks, really, and the dom sub relationship is one where it is customized for whatever strokes (no pun intended) both sides are aroused by

not saying that I am not aware of what it is

I mean it has been around since at least

the Marquis de Sade wrote of it


just saying that when sex between two people now involves

having to have a 'safe' word to stop the pain?


then it borders on psychosis in my opinion

The whole fad reminds me of when Deep Throat came out, and lots of people pretended to themselves that it wasn't just porn, because it was presented as "you are cool if you say this movie is enlightening."

No interest. Yeah, I know some people are into that stuff, but I know some people are into scatology too, and I don't need to sit through a bunch of good looking people doing THAT, either.

I feel ya igor, I am big on hygiene so the scat thing is also beyond me

but there is something arousing(to me) about a man in control

there was something AROUSING about the first time, and that certainly hurt, and the male was constantly checking that I was ok,,, which was also a bonding experience

that combination of domination and care, to me, is arousing when 'vanilla' gets mundane

It's the doing, that appeals to me. Not the watching.

Well, there ya go, why not start a new D/s Style.. bedroom boxing...