Topic: How do you know...
MicheleNC's photo
Sun 11/18/07 05:42 PM
That 'it' will last? That special feeling you have for someone?

Right now, I'm just trying to enjoy the ride and look no further than tomorrow (actually tomorrow and the next month due to holiday events).

Ouch, not like me to get deep. I blame the Nyquil. Someone shoot me, but share your thoughts before you do.

Hugs, M


mild_intensity's photo
Sun 11/18/07 05:44 PM
u no it will last when they look u n the eyes a say "i cant live without u..." or sumthin along those lines lol

StarlaSky's photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:11 PM
I'm still trying to figure this all out myself??? I feel for you, I too am in the same boat u r! I have a post if you care to read it, "Love? when do you know it's real?" (something like that, lol!)

no photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:15 PM
((Michele))flowerforyou

Lay off the Nyquil, chica! You're starting to gush and it's making me sick! sick

:tongue:


Just enjoy it and give it more time! drinker

flowerforyou

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:22 PM
Michele...

One never knows what the future hold. I would ENJOY each other as much as I could. Have a blast with him!!!!

flowerforyou :tongue: flowerforyou

ephraimglass's photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:25 PM
To me, there's no way to passively tell if a relationship can last. You can't look at the signs and say, "Yup, this is guaranteed to work out." Lasting relationships happen because both partners consciously commit on a daily basis to make the relationship work.

s1owhand's photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:51 PM
well i would say that for me it is like someone stuffed my mouth full of habaneros. that is a good sign. i remember not being able to believe that she actually wanted to be with me. really. i could not even believe it. then after a couple of months of her only wanting to be with me and doing all the little things to be nice to me...i finally realized that she really loved me in the deepest and most sincere way possible - this endures. and for me i have been fortunate enough to feel something like this a handfull of times in my life. and it always lasts - i think of it as the essence of being human. it is unmistakable for me and i will without a doubt always know it when i feel it. it is overwhelming. and that, is what i have experienced.

Totage's photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:54 PM
You don't know IT will last, that's the thing. Each step closer is a bigger chance.

no photo
Sun 11/18/07 07:12 PM
maybe you should stay on the nyquil it will help you get past all the holidays, hee haw

no photo
Sun 11/18/07 07:14 PM
When you decide it will last.......everything is a choice including Love!flowerforyou

Mimx's photo
Sun 11/18/07 07:23 PM

When you decide it will last.......everything is a choice including Love!flowerforyou


Couldn't of said it better myself happy

mbcasey's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:11 PM
I was and still am totally head over heels in love. She broke my heart a month ago. I thought she was the one.

You never know what can happen in life. It can throw you a doozy of a curveball out of nowhere. Have fun while it lasts.

I hope your relationship is the one. Good luck to you!

MicheleNC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:13 AM
Blech...no more Nyquil for me.

Hugs to all of your for your responses. Those that know me know I do not get so contemplative in real life.

Time to get ready for work.

flowerforyou M

Jess642's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:27 AM
No expectations...

No obligations.

Enjoy the moment, and the feelings that arise in you...let them flow through you, but do not attempt to hold them there.

Just enjoy the ride,.

You have Now, this moment...no one has a crystal ball to project what tomorrow may look like.

And I don't have Nyquil...:wink: laugh