KNIFE IN HAND LMAO

she did!! after 20yrs. of sniffin she left him for another dude

good for her catch ..

a draw-sniffen , non-trusting partner and then SHE leaves him ???/ he
give her any reason to wonder ???? I wonder .. :)

Hummmm myself had it done to me that is why he is an ex. I forgive him
no problem would I ever trust him again not in this life time lamo. The
ones that I knew that tried to work it out after one cheated was never
able to get back what they once had. If you do you are one in a million
and consider yourself very lucky.

i agree txs i tried i was NOT one in those millions..it just wasted
time

If there was ever a time that I had to wonder like that, I would
be gone.. how can anybody have a relationship with miss trust
like that?? I don't understand people, my ex would acuse me of weird
stuff i couldnt even argue with.

it really does depend on the circumstances... I myself would never
cheat, but if someone is cheating, there is a reason. By no means is it
the fault of the person who is being cheated on, but the couple
obviously has other issues to deal with. If those issues can be dealt
with, then the trust can be rebuilt... but it is very difficult. I was
cheated on and I did forgive, but it is very hard to forget. He is now
my ex, but not for that reason... as I stated, there were other issues
that we could not come to aggreement on.

On the flip side, if it ever happened to me again, I wouldnt even try to
deal with the other issues, I would just move on...

i was one of those woman that said IF HE EVER CHEATED IM GONE..proved
myself wrong..live and learn

lol I hear ya Catch ... I had my suspicions about my Ex about a week
before I was the one kicked to the curb .. and she STILL denies it ....
( altho she is still with the loser she hooked up with ) ... an ex-pal
of mine....
Needless to say I trust neither one of them ..

the way i see it one special thing came out of it..my beautiful daughter
who is my bestfriend, my heart and soul..

MW too .. I have 2 of the BEST kids in the world , ( what parent
wouldn't say that ??... lol ) and we grow closer every day they get
older ... its awesome ... :)

well said twotall

it seems to happen close to home too. so you dont loose just 1 you loose
a friend too. I haven't been in very many relationships. so I haven't
had alot of trust issues, then I'm loyal in any kind i have, friendship
or B/F...

My problem( ??) .. IS I trust EVERYONE, til they prove me wrong, and it
usually makes me an emotional wreck, for a short period of time ,but
its just the way I am ... I figure if I have nothing to hide, why
should the other person ??.. oh well .. :)

Thx JoJo ... :)

The foundation of a relationship is built on trust...... lose that -
lose everything!

I took mine back six years ago for cheating.

I found out the week of my nine year anniversary she had been cheating
on me again. ALL summer. Acting like everything was just fine and
dandy.

And now there are still people, even after the divorce. That want me to
take her back...I tell em to pound sand.

I'm thru wasting my time.

Anyone who cheats obviouly does not respect their partner. They are
self-centered and cannot be trusted.

couldn't have said it better

Cheating hurts people. NO i have been the victim of that and NO i did
not forgive.