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LucyFay
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my story is long,i wish i didnt have that one relationship.ever had an affair? i never thought of my self being involved in some thing like that.i met this girl on facebook. i fell for her in a few weeks.day after day my feeling grew even more.we where speaking for hours ad hours some days up to 6 hours on the phone.how cold i have known?! after a while she accepts to meet me in a town called Minden.it was a beautiful day.longest train trip in my life,two hours turnd into years.she was the best thing that ever happend to me.we met at the train station,then we walked in the old town,had a Kaffee in one of the old places there. everything was so special and spontaneous.we held hands,kissed,looked into each others soul.then it was time to say goodbye.so soon? we kept our casual relationship going for over six month,until she said it.she was married. and then she left me! right now i dont know whats worse, that she did this to me,or the fact that i still think about her. i guess thats why im here, to find out if what im feeling is love to her or just a void that i need to fill. sorry for the long post.and the bad English. There are people out there who think of love as a game. Once they feel they’ve won a round, the game is over for them and they need to begin a new game to keep the excitement going. They feed on the thrill of the hunt and don’t care anything about the feelings of the victims they leave behind. Think of it as a bad experience and not a loss. You lost nothing. She was not worth keeping. |
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Wisdom is gained from all life experiences, Good and Bad.
If bad experiences keep repeating for you, you obviously did not learn the wisdom you need. I have never cheated, not even in high school. I have been cheated on tho. I remember one gal when I was in the service and living in Little Creek, VA. I was rooming with 3 other guys (monthy bills was $120) and we would hit Virginia Beach strip looking for girls. I hooked up with this smoking hot woman and brought her back to the house and we had a fantastic night. The next morning, she told me she had to get home because her husband was coming off duty. It floored me. I didn't ask, she didn't tell. It taught me to ask. I was married for 25 years. I never cheated on my X. Can't say the same for her. |
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Edited by
Rooster35
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Wed 02/21/18 07:53 AM
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She used you, played you like a violon and threw you away like an old sock.
Women are the best manipulators ever so don't feel bad about it. Many men have fallen for it, including me. Knowing the truth now can only strengthen you. I agree with IgorFrankensteen: " review your EMOTIONAL decision making". It's been proven that men are more devastated by a breakup than women so protect yourself by not being so emotionally available, emotionally immature and agreeable. I understand that she's divorced now and may look you up. Just remember. If she was able to cheat on her husband with you then there's no reason to think she won't do the same to you. Women are a hundred times more promiscuous than men these days, society encourages and supports it. Know it and act accordingly. |
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LOL, WoW, you really hate women don't you?
The way I see it my younger self made poor choices. The wisdom I gained is to make better choices. I also learned to address problems in a relationship as they happen and to not let them simmer to see if they go away. I've also learned that every person is different and not to group then for a preliminary failure. Its seems someone wronged you and you are full of resentment over it. How's that working out for ya? |
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LOL, WoW, you really hate women don't you? ... Its seems someone wronged you and you are full of resentment over it. How's that working out for ya? I don't hate women, just like I don't hate fire. But I'm not gonna keep putting my hand in it after it burns me over and over... we have to learn sometime or be doomed to repeat the same mistakes again and again. Plenty of people wronged me, just like I'm sure plenty have wronged you, too. I have no resentment. I'm at peace knowing that I have control over my sexuality, body and mind. I don't know where you're coming off throwing all this at me when my post are frank and clear. If you're willing to be lead by the nose like a bull to the slaughter house, more power to you. But don't throw your insecurities in my face. |
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Not all women are the same any more than all men are. Not all women are manipulators any more than all men are cheaters
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LOL, WoW, you really hate women don't you? ... Its seems someone wronged you and you are full of resentment over it. How's that working out for ya? I don't hate women, just like I don't hate fire. But I'm not gonna keep putting my hand in it after it burns me over and over... we have to learn sometime or be doomed to repeat the same mistakes again and again. Plenty of people wronged me, just like I'm sure plenty have wronged you, too. I have no resentment. I'm at peace knowing that I have control over my sexuality, body and mind. I don't know where you're coming off throwing all this at me when my post are frank and clear. If you're willing to be lead by the nose like a bull to the slaughter house, more power to you. But don't throw your insecurities in my face. I tells it like I sees it. Experience has taught me that every person is different. While I am not as gullible as I once was, I don't group everyone under the assumption they are set on doing me wrong either. As for my insecurities, nah, not really. What others think of me doesn't matter anymore. As for myself, I like me. I know I'm a good person. Go back and reread just your comments, not just in this thread but all of them. Notice a theme? |
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Not all women are the same any more than all men are. Not all women are manipulators any more than all men are cheaters Yeah, women also cheat and men also are manipulators. But, not all men and women are. |
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Go back and reread just your comments, not just in this thread but all of them. Notice a theme? Tom. It only seems like I'm putting everyone in the same basket because I don't use "some" and " many" before men and women. I'm fully aware that not all women and all men are alike. I have exemples around me every day. I don't need to be corrected by the likes of you, men who are only too willing to crawl on hands and knees just for a woman's approval and maybe she'll touch their peepee... Stay in your lane and skip my posts, please. Responding to you is waste of my time. |
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Go back and reread just your comments, not just in this thread but all of them. Notice a theme? Tom. It only seems like I'm putting everyone in the same basket because I don't use "some" and " many" before men and women. I'm fully aware that not all women and all men are alike. I have exemples around me every day. I don't need to be corrected by the likes of you, men who are only too willing to crawl on hands and knees just for a woman's approval and maybe she'll touch their peepee... Stay in your lane and skip my posts, please. Responding to you is waste of my time. LOL, then why did you? Be well, citizen... |
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Not all women are the same any more than all men are. Not all women are manipulators any more than all men are cheaters Yeah, women also cheat and men also are manipulators. But, not all men and women are.  every one is evil
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so how was the Coffee in that little town.. strong?
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Ok, here we have another online heartbreak. We seem to forget that this is online, we place ourselves out there and see how it goes. All that is good. But if you go deep with someone not present, there is a huge chance of a heartbreak. I do not need to say, that anyone can be anyone. When you carry a online relationship, like it was said already. You need to ask the right questions. Even with the right questions, there are always signs of something wrong. If you do not check your feeling when they are talking to you, something is wrong, then you are placing yourself to loose. In my experience, I was on a online relationship, all seems good, but every so often something come up and the feelings place me on alert. That is no longer. I feel better. All because I follow my feelings. Now I am not really interested on a online relationship. More here and present. So far so good and living better days. So why this, just the forums, entertaining.
Is up to you, you want to be around people and believe what they say, is ok. |
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