seriously people, why are there so many clueless men?
i mean really, what happened to romantic gestures to win over a woman...
the biggest gesture i have seen from a man on here involves something i would rather not repeat but you can imagine
and its never that big either, just normal...
but seriously, why do men what us to be easy and simple minded when we can't.
we are made complex for a reason dudes. learn to deal with it. or stay single!

well said, it's getting exhausting trying to find love here

i'm on the opposite.....trust me aunty......

I totally agreed. No matter how hard you tried to let them know you really care and serious about relationship, they just have to ruin it by asking some nude pictures of yours in exchange. (I am not talking about men in general, only few and I'm saying this base on experience.)

I totally agreed. No matter how hard you tried to let them know you really care and serious about relationship, they just have to ruin it by asking some nude pictures of yours in exchange. (I am not talking about men in general, only few and I'm saying this base on experience.)

Sorry for your experience ladies. But not all the same. You need to figure out who is serious and not looking for cyber fun, and I think ladies have a natural inhabitant to catch that. So use it. Don't think we are not facing the same kind of problems. Good luck.

Yeah, I hear ya Ladies, men really suck!, so why not switch to the other team.

At least you will be able to understand each other.. since we don't understand you.

Humm can you imagine if guys are that bad then how much worse it would be with a woman????

Just because one got a few bad ones is no reason to lump them all into the same category....

And if all the men one is talking to are the same then it is time to look at the men they are going for......

There is no shortage of good men. And just like women there are bad ones as well.

The problem is(in my eyes), some women want to mold a man into what they perceive the man should be. When that doesn't happen, then in their eyes all men are lumped together.

Then the man bashing begins. and snowballs.

And ladies,frankly men get tired of that.

You want a man.. then that's what you get.. a man.. can't make him into something he is not.. And it is his " man" traits that attracted you in the first place.

I'm not sure if complex is the word seeing that it's a big waste of time, energy and money even trying to please the modern day woman. It is their job to please themselves just as no woman could ever please me. It is my job to find my own happiness and not hers seeing that she can only bring sorrow endless complaints and drama. No reason to throw good money after bad. Might as well spend it on me.