Ok, so I was married twice. I only married the second man because I was not over the first. Dumb move I agree! Now that I am alone again my first husband is calling all the time. I find him truly enjoyable to hang out with but I always remember he cheated on me. Thats what broke us up. Someone please tell me what to do??? What would you do?? He makes me laugh just crazy but...

Run, Girl, run fast!

You know better. They don't call them ex's for no reason.

Be strong! Hugs, M

No harm in having dinner or something if you guys are on civil terms. That doesn't mean you have to get involved all over again....

i wish mine could be nice when he called! alls mine does is screams at me for thing that i didnt do!

Well mine is bringing me lunch to work and calling all the time so I know he wants more than just to be friends. I like the attention but I'm not sure I want more.

I'm in the same boatbut only been married once.How do you learn to trust him again? ANY HELP OUT THERE????????

Trust will always be an issue. Once broken...it's like Humpty Dumpty...... won't ever be the same.

That's the manipulative side.... their ability to charm. They say people don't change their behavior and I don't exactly believe that... but cheaters are a special breed. It's a matter of being conniving.

My ex made me laugh which was part of her draw. Very warm too. But then there were these side phone calls that she said she'd stop..... she didn't and it split us up cause I knew where it was goin'.

You have answered yourself by even coming here to post. Painful but hey... protect yourself so you don't have to go through that hell again. There's more fish in the sea and some are fresher than the last stanky one.

I do think there are unfortunate reasons why people cheat such as they aren't getting any at home. So if that's the case then therapy for both together.

John

Just be honest with him.. Tell him how you feel & that you can't trust him. Don't lead him on if you know in the back of your mind you wouldn't be able to forget what he did...

i wouldn't let your guard down around him, we dont wanna see you get hurt. he could be changed, but it's so hard to tell.

Ok, so what if I admit I was not attracted to him in bed? But that doesn't mean I did not love him. He does make me laugh hard!

no good a fishing.they get away all the time.doing something wrong,but not sure what!!!!!!

I say if you can be friends, just be friends. If things feel like they're getting closer than friendship, remember that he did cheat on before.

its drama waiting in the wings

spray him in the face with windex then run!

LOL, I have to say it is creating drama in my head already!

no harm in getting together for dinner, drinks, laughs...but other then that..........run for the hills

they are exes for a reason,cuz they messed up the first time around and they proved they can handle a real adult realtionship

been hung up on him for 35 years,divorced 24 yrs.he's been married 6 times now,getting 6 divorced now.that should tell me sometime but can't seen to let go.they said there's a fool born every mintue[sorry spell-wrong]

Be careful sometimes its better to just not have ne contact at all.

MRY,you are a confused soul.