Hi am interested in hearing from you ladies about deal breakers , red flags , major turn offs ... Things guys do that you may find typical and tend to kill relationships .... Thanks

Major turn offs for women... you should know that, if you dont have much money then cant be consider as honey...

When I was younger, I did find out that those women were seriously turned off by being asked what turned them off. Don't know if that changed in fifty etcetera years.

being asked to send used undies was grose, instead of saying hi, just getting "hi big ****" within 5 mins of chatting being asked to marry the guy, being asked to support their visa so they can come live with me after a few mins of chatting. and basically not being treat with respect is a turn off. I could say so many more things from experiences on here, im no prude but a little manners goes a long way

hahahaha

being referred to as any of following in intro message
baby
babydoll
sweetie
dear
bae
boo
sugar

Meanwhile, back in this universe . . .

Somebody asked you to send them your used undies???... Lol. That's a pisser!!!.. oh sorry... I mean that's funny!!

yes i did have a good laugh after the disgust subsided lol

I've stopped asking for used undies...
I got tired of doing their laundry.

you could have wrapped an used diaper in something they could not see thru then put it in a sealed plastic bag and sent it too them hehehe

While I completely understand the motive for asking for tips on how not to offend women (they can be very coy and mysterious about why, once it's too late), I have seen that there's a built-in danger/conundrum to asking.

That is, that if you are already so inclined to exhibiting obviously disgusting behavior (asking for dirty underwear? seriously?) that you have to ASK women to detail things, there's little chance that them giving you a list would help.

And further, it's tricky, because part of how ALL of us use our lists of "red flags" to sort others out, is based on waiting for them to display bad behaviors to us of their own volition.

If I list out all the things a woman has to avoid doing, in order to gain my favor, one of the "bad" ones will use the list to trick me into thinking she's sane.

Same thing works for women.

So keep asking if you want, but it wont work to do so, for those reasons.

I think it would make a lot MORE sense, if you can't figure it out yourself, to ask specifically why individual acts have caused you problems.

I already know the answer to the most common and obvious confusions: the reason why a given woman will claim that one guy has "crossed a line," but will react warmly to another one doing exactly the same thing. That one's easy.

You do have a point Igor. I do hope some men can figure it out on their own. For initial contact reasons, when you do not yet really know a woman, here ya go!

I am not your baby, baby doll, sweety, honey, luv and I do not want your virtual kisses.
I appreciate that you like the way I look. You would not have messaged me if you did not. If you message me about how pretty I am and have nothing further to say, then you likely did not read my profile. I have a brain too.
READ A PROFILE for crying out loud! You want a quicky, find someone else who does and leave me alone.
I am not interested in the size of your anatomy.
I am not going to sponsor you.
I am not going to send you nude pictures.
I do not want your nude pictures.

well said and i totally agree