Topic: whom u prefer
lhyne36's photo
Mon 01/02/17 12:14 AM
which s a better partner?
someone who love u but doesn't care for u?
or
someone who care for u but doesn't love u?


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Mon 01/02/17 12:27 AM
How can someone love you but doesn't care for you...that isn't love...coz love goes hand in hand with caring for one

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Mon 01/02/17 06:22 AM
whom u prefer

Neither.

which s a better partner?
someone who love u but doesn't care for u?
or
someone who care for u but doesn't love u?

Depends on who I am in this scenario of choice.
Me as I am now, neither is better than being alone or finding another option.

If I was the type of person that was shopping for a relationship for my ego, my primary focus was on my career, my me space, my freedom, then the "better" partner out of those 2 choices would be someone who loves me but doesn't care for me.
If they loved me (but didn't care for me, whatever "care" means) they'd communicate it simply and clearly, if they didn't care for me their interference in my life and my priorities would be minimal, they wouldn't be all that motivated to insinuate themselves all that deeply demanding constant feedback and validation for their feelings.

If I was the type of person who was looking for like a sugar daddy, then it would be someone who cared for me but doesn't love me.
They would attempt to fill that missing "love" hole with gifts and behavior to make up for the lack of love, or to make the relationship seem more deep than it is, plus they wouldn't just rely on their "feelings" to make me happy enough to give them what they want.

lhyne36's photo
Mon 01/02/17 06:29 AM
whom u prefer

Neither.

which s a better partner?
someone who love u but doesn't care for u?
or
someone who care for u but doesn't love u?

Depends on who I am in this scenario of choice.
Me as I am now, neither is better than being alone or finding another option.

If I was the type of person that was shopping for a relationship for my ego, my primary focus was on my career, my me space, my freedom, then the "better" partner out of those 2 choices would be someone who loves me but doesn't care for me.
If they loved me (but didn't care for me, whatever "care" means) they'd communicate it simply and clearly, if they didn't care for me their interference in my life and my priorities would be minimal, they wouldn't be all that motivated to insinuate themselves all that deeply demanding constant feedback and validation for their feelings.

If I was the type of person who was looking for like a sugar daddy, then it would be someone who cared for me but doesn't love me.
They would attempt to fill that missing "love" hole with gifts and behavior to make up for the lack of love, or to make the relationship seem more deep than it is, plus they wouldn't just rely on their "feelings" to make me happy enough to give them what they want.


very well said
thank u

lhyne36's photo
Mon 01/02/17 06:32 AM
How can someone love you but doesn't care for you...that isn't love...coz love goes hand in hand with caring for one


believe me it happens maybe not often but its possible

samatvam's photo
Fri 01/06/17 08:07 AM
For whom how, there're a lot of strange relations.. As for me I prefer neither from above :))

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/06/17 08:19 AM


It's either they both are willing to give all or move on never stay with someone your not happy with~~~~ just to be with someone.. noway

lhyne36's photo
Fri 01/06/17 09:38 AM
For whom how, there're a lot of strange relations.. As for me I prefer neither from above :))



maybe because
our world s revolving backwards thats why stranged things happen to humanity this days.
Either ignore or be trap right? Its a matter of choice

lhyne36's photo
Fri 01/06/17 10:03 AM


It's either they both are willing to give all or move on never stay with someone your not happy with~~~~ just to be with someone.. noway



thank u

its just a scenario and only 2 choices r available

the same as would u rather be doing the wrong choices to be happy f doing the right ones make u feel empty ?

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/06/17 11:00 AM



It's either they both are willing to give all or move on never stay with someone your not happy with~~~~ just to be with someone.. noway



thank u

its just a scenario and only 2 choices r available

the same as would u rather be doing the wrong choices to be happy f doing the right ones make u feel empty ?


Humm, but in life you always have more then one or two choices. It is up to each person to make what they feel is the right choice at the time. Even tho it may end up to be the wrong one.

No matter what one should not settle to feel secure or cause they just don't want to deal with it.. I would rather be alone then with someone that I don't enjoy being around every day~~~~~

Myself I enjoy my own company~~~ biggrin