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Topic: mutual matches
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Thu 11/15/07 07:42 PM
i have gotton like 4 mutual matches and have sent messages to them all ,with no response,I thought they meant they you both had an interest in each other.Whats up?

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Thu 11/15/07 07:43 PM
ok well lets find and click hte yes button on each otehr i promise i will respond

rodfcutler's photo
Thu 11/15/07 07:49 PM

Be Patient.Maybe they have gone offline for a reason.Dont count your chickens before they hatch!

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Thu 11/15/07 07:53 PM
I get them all the long and it is getting annoying. I don't have time to rate everyone. Some have email me and telling me that they are interested. Some are cool friends and will meet some in person in Los Angeles and go partying in the Hollywood Hills.:tongue:

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Thu 11/15/07 07:54 PM
I get them all the long and it is getting annoying. I don't have time to rate everyone. Some have email me and telling me that they are interested. Some are cool friends and will meet some in person in Los Angeles and go partying in the Hollywood Hills.:tongue:

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Thu 11/15/07 07:55 PM
WTF? This site is slow!!!!!!!!!sad sad sad sad

ephraimglass's photo
Thu 11/15/07 07:55 PM
Jules, it's just like anywhere. People fill out a questionnaire or click a Yes/No box and get "matched" with people. That's all they want though. Some are window shopping, some are validating their own worth by "collecting" matches. I know how discouraging it can be to email people and not get responses, but in my experience, that will happen more often than not.

adj4u's photo
Thu 11/15/07 07:58 PM

i have gotton like 4 mutual matches and have sent messages to them all ,with no response,I thought they meant they you both had an interest in each other.Whats up?



maybe they are to shy

they clicked yes or maybe

if they are listed in you mutual match list

and not just in the search yes no maybe area

if there they just have similar info to what yer search info is

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Thu 11/15/07 07:58 PM
its kind of like jr high.. do you like me check yes or no

Chele1964's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:00 PM

i have gotton like 4 mutual matches and have sent messages to them all ,with no response,I thought they meant they you both had an interest in each other.Whats up?


Same thing is happening with me. They have read the email and still no response. Not sure what is up with that? ohwell

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:02 PM
what do u check? i look at a profile but see nothing of the sort. yet i got 13 of them..i dont know what they are since ive been gone so long . i dont get how they sent them to me didnt even notice them there lol

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:02 PM
what do u check? i look at a profile but see nothing of the sort. yet i got 13 of them..i dont know what they are since ive been gone so long . i dont get how they sent them to me didnt even notice them there lol omg this is slow!

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:02 PM
laugh laugh

Nervesgone's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:07 PM
Welcome back Buttons. They shouldn't be there if you have not done the mutual match search??glasses

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:08 PM
no i did no search lollaugh

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:11 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou thanks for the welcome... no said i had 13 and i clicked on the red letters and bunch of guys popped up... i had to pick yes no or maybe.... where did they come from? did they pick me somehow?laugh laugh i dont get it cant find a help button on it herelaugh laugh

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Thu 11/15/07 08:12 PM
Buttons U have to view them and rate them. If yes or maybe, then it is a match. What! Do you have the time to rate others? I can't even rate myself.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Sweet_Dreams's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:13 PM
I have a lot of mutual matches, yet I talk to only a couple of people consistently. Just because they're matched doesn't mean they're going to talk or respond. Just give it time.

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:14 PM
laugh laugh aww your a 10laugh laugh flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Thu 11/15/07 08:15 PM
i never looked at them before.. and two i said maybe but im not ready and one is popped up on my match list now his facelaugh i wonder if he can see that?laugh

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