They say that first love never dies, is this true for men out there

It's true, I will never forget her face.. But I have forgot her name.

Yup it's true. But then again i remember everything. So I can only speak for myself.

I will say that that is true, but not in my case because I found out years later that she was married the whole time and was taking drugs and that was when I could forget her. But I think that everyone that you fall in love with is special to you for ever.

its applicabble for boys only but girl's i q pwr is more less thann a boy..se girls commonly forget her first if she find a true lover in her present life who engage wit her but boys never do like this everytime..

It's true for me. My first real love passed away this year. I haven't forgotten her face or her voice.

When I read the title of this thread, I thought it was about automobiles.

I'd say over all, that's one of those common sayings that's basically balderdash.

I say that, because for most people, male and female alike, the "first love" occurs long before they actually have anything but a silly cartoonish idea about what love really is, and what it means.

I can say for 100% sure, that in most ways, neither I, nor anyone else I've ever known, ACTUALLY stays "in love" with anyone forever, no matter what. ESPECIALLY not first loves, because those are almost always horrible mistakes in the compatibility department.

Now. Lots of people idealize their first loves, and use references to them to try to get the lover of today to make changes for them, but that's not because they actually still "love" that first person. It's more that they want the same sense of innocence and freedom they think they remember feeling that first time.

You know how some people talk about enjoying the "new car smell"? So much, that some people actually sell and air freshener that artificially creates the "new car smell" in their cars?

People who pine for their "first love" are just like that. They don't REALLY still want or "love" that person from long ago, they just want that "first love feeling" again.

Not gender specific

yes.. I love that new girl friend smell

I agree with you on this one...
I do think it happens more to men than women. Could be wrong on this one. but I always get the impression that women tend to get over exes more than men do.
In any case, I fully agree it's mostly idealizing that first 'love'. Maybe also because they got hurt quite bad for the first time when it ended.
Hurt often seems to result in people romanticizing and idealizing what 'has been' even more. I spose cos they tend to focus on the great stuff that used to be in order to ease the pain?

if hforgets her he never loved her

Is there an air freshener with that smell?

My first real love came after my X wife. And I wasn't a teen either. I was a grown man. I found out that what my dad once told me was truth. He use to say that somewhere out there, there's someone that will grab your heart. And they will grab it the right way. You will finally know what real love is.

My dad never truly believed I loved my X wife. But I did. I just didn't realize that there could be a love that went deeper. It was 10 yrs after I divorced her that we found each other. It's a hard thing to explain. All I can say is, she meant more to me than life itself. When she got killed by a dope head with a gun, for 45 bucks, I thought I was never going to get over it.

I have still not gotten over her or the way she was taken away from me. But I have learned to live with it and move on. In all honesty, I've never loved another woman like I did her. And I'm not sure that I ever will. In the past 5 years, I've opened up a great deal. I don't live in the past anymore. But she will forever always hold a place in my heart as the first true and real love of my life.

i will always be in love with Pam...

IT'S A TRAP BOYS DON'T FALL FOR IT

Yup

"Is it true that men will not forget their "first love"?"

I don't think ONLY men. I can't forget my first love

i think so

ya it's true. 100%