Topic: Desperate for true love
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Mon 12/19/16 08:04 AM
Going 23, and my mind is thinking about family and happiness! but can't find a true man, is there any true man willing to know me more!? please no games!

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Mon 12/19/16 08:28 AM
my mind is thinking about family

You are in your sexual prime. Your desire is to procreate. It is normal and common.

and happiness!

Happiness is a state of mind that only you can feel. It is not perpetual. Not something you can look for. Contentment allows you to feel happiness. You need to find your happiness within yourself, not others.

but can't find a true man

There are many men that are true. You mean (I think) that you are looking for a man that you can trust to value you and your potential children.

is there any true man willing to know me more!?

Yes, with over 7.4 billion people on this planet there is likely to be at least one.

Find a man that is somebody special to you and you to him. Look for qualities that you want in your life and for your family. Perhaps a small list of things to look for might help:

~Physical/genetic compatability
~Similar morals and values
~The ability to keep their word and honor their commitments, not just to you but in everything about them
~Someone in control of their emotional states
~Someone financially able to support a family. (Look for a career, dedication and sacrifice, not just to you but in all aspects of his life.
~Someone that will do the right thing even at self-sacrifice.
~Someone who also wants to have a family.

I'm sure you only want the best for your family. Whatever standards you set for the "True Man" you need to already have set for yourself.
Try to remember that a family is more than just having babies. It is raising those babies to be wise and healthy. Life gets in the way...a lot.
If you make your family's foundation strong before they arrive those life obstacles will be manageable. But that foundation must apply to both of you equally.

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Wed 12/21/16 01:26 AM
you are still very young..no need to be desperate flowers