Pair bonding, emotional interconnected interdependence caused by hormonal reactions in an ideal social setting or position occurring over a period of time, motivated by the desire to mate and procreate.


Physical and emotional gratification through genital and erogenous zone manipulation leading to orgasm.


You can't have "true" organic love without ongoing sex, the purpose of which is procreation, with pleasure and gratification being used to compel people to have sex in order to propagate.

You can have sex without love, desiring only the pleasure involved, choosing to work against the natural, organic development of interconnected emotional commitment.

So..the "difference between the two line" seems to be motives, goals, desires, identity, and ability, off the top of my head. I'm sure there's more.


Then want a family, and find someone that wants to build a family.
If you don't want that, if you don't want kids, then you have at most a few months of "true" organic love before you start naturally working against it as your body has been pushing you since at least puberty to go out and make more of you.

Then your best bet is a type of rationalized pseudo love based on social contracts and conditioning that will more often than not fail over time as the procreation "biological clock" starts ticking louder.


It really doesn't.
The point of "loving" relationships is to keep people together long enough to keep the kids that pop out after sex alive long enough to run away from lions, and teach kids enough not be strangled as little a-holes by the other members of their community.

After that it's based on the neural pathways in the brain, having completely integrated them into your personality, fear of change, desire for routine, and ease of gratification.

sometimes there can be sex w/o love or vice versa love w/o sex....maybe better to call it making love...last