I have researched a lot on the above topic co found some answers to some questions my heart do as me but fatal not satisfiedco need members oppinion

The person who cheats is unhappy. Either with themselves, or the person they are with. Then they find someone that makes them feel happy. Whether it is real or not, they believe it at the time.

If not faithful, do not get into a relationship. In my eyes that is unacceptable.

i agree with Charlie Brown " There is no problem that I cant run away from"

The cause of faithfulness, is the person choosing to be faithful.

The effect, is...well, there is no "effect." That is, being faithful doesn't cause anything in particular to happen.

Why all the calculation and study?

Hmmmm...

Some causes of faithfulness:
- hormones counterbalancing.
- lack of alternatives to being faithful.
- lack of incentive not to be faithful.
- personal choice for all sorts of reasons such as identity protection, or harm prevention.
- emotional interdependence.

Some effects of faithfulness:
- influences trust.
- influences communication.
- influences security.
- influences decision making.
- influences emotional stability.


Great!
...Why not share what you researched, what questions you had, and what answers you found?


I didn't really understand this.
Were you trying to say something like "I understand, the answers I found, rationally but not emotionally?"
Or "it makes sense to my brain, but not my heart?"

PEOPLE ALWAYS STAY IN THERE AWARENESS AT THE TIME........A PERSON WILL ONLY DO

WHAT THERE VALUE SYSTEM WILL ALLOW THEM TO DO......CHANGE IS DIFFICULT BECAUSE

THE PERSON HAS TO HAVE A LOGICAL AWARENESS WHILE IN THERE ADULT EGO STATE MORE

THEN ONCE.....THEY ARE WHERE THEY ARE BECAUSE THERE POSITION WAS VALIDATED BY

THEMSELVES MORE THAN ONCE USUALLY WHILE THEY WHERE IN THERE CHILD EGO

STATE.......SO

''IT'S A CHOICE''.....