age is just a number if the chemistry is there than go for it

i totally agree

Hi damsel and welcome.

so true!

sure age is just a number.
but like others have said... she is going to miss out on so much. she may not be ready to seetle down(sp) u might be.
keep that in mind.

so im less of a man because im not attracted to a bitter wrinkled chunky crone like you but am attracted to beautiful perky slender young girls? well then call me a pervert for sure.

Age depends on the people. My brother in law is 20 yrs older than my sister and they've been together 15 yrs. Where as my daughters dad was 17 yrs older than me and we don't talk without fighting.

ok I haven't been here in awhile. So news alert age doesn't matter. I'm 35 and my boyfriend is 54

um this is what i think and u may throw rotten bananas at your computer screen. but get real.

the guy is 30 and the girl is 18.
what if it were the girl were 30 and the guy 18?

this young woman needs to get out and do things that an 18 year old would do...not travel around with a 30 year old....until she gets more experience under her belt....well over the belt..

when i was 16 years old, an 24 year old bus driver had the hots for me. oh god when my father found out after this guy called the house. it stopped pdq. i don't remember what my father said, but well it was over before it began.

i am going to think all the above advice over and comment more tomorrow after i sleep on this.

my rule of thumb is if the guy is old enough to be my dad then i wont date him


the oldest i'll go is 36 maybe older just depends on if the attraction is there and if we can have a conversation that we both enjoy

i still think shoelaces may be the best indicator

you know whats so funny back in the 30's,40's 50's,60's and even 70's,this was pretty much an acceptable thing, now for some reason its a no no.let me guess things were different,how there was still 30 year olds dating 18 year olds, hell there was 16 year olds having kids with 28 year old men. i just dont get it.i wouldnt date a 18 year old by choice,my preference . but to me i still dont see what the problem, oh wait, 18 year olds dont know what love is,but they vote,risk their lives in combat,cant drink legally,but its a no no to be in love with a older person.whatever. how bout letting them make up their own minds,and live and learn.just like you did when you were 18

okay well let us put it another way. when an 18 year old getst to be 20, 30 year old gets to be 32, and when 20 year old gets to be 22, 32 year old gets to be 34, and so on. age and youth catch up with each other, but how only god knows.

Like before if you're both happy go for it. Again my boyfriend is 54 and I'm 35 and my sister is 36 married to a 56 yr old. We have our moments but who doesn't. I'll tell you straight up Manuel treats me a whole lot better than my ex-husband who was only 11 yrs older than me ever did. Even as crazy as it may sound behind closed doors he's still better. Sorry if I offend someone but no need in Viagra here.

Oh and to the comment about being older than my dad. My boyfriend is a couple months older than my dad.

whatever works for you guys!

Such hostility! Is that really necessary? I think the topic was about age difference, not that younger women are beautiful, perky or slender. Your defensiveness is quite telling. You have also shown a good example of why the age factor sometimes does not work with both your posts. You might try again in a different manner if you really want to prove your point. Good Luck.

And my question is - Do you have the balls to make it work?!

hey is he talking about a wrinkled old croney like me?
well he is way out of live. some of my junk is wrinkled, but i ain't an old croney.