Hubby and I have been looking for a woman to add to our life and love and them love us and we get played why

Happens to every one on the online sites. But you two will get better at spotting the fakes in time..

Once you step into that arena, like Prince said,,,Your on your own...

Um. Because marriage is between two people. What do you expect from a stranger?

Yes being married is between two people but if you are open mind and are bisexual then it should not matter if they are married or not

OK. Married is canceled because people are bisexual.

No but if the woman wants both worlds why not join a hubby and wife

Why not just be honest and say I only want a woman not a man and it is fine

OK.

Thinking from another angule, have both of you look into another men instead a women, no me, off course, I have my believe on the institution of marriage. Just trying to help.

"Why not just be honest and say I only want a woman not a man and it is fine"

I miss that post. Never mind.

The reason bi sexuals see everyone as "playing" them, is they are playing men and women. Imo. They are playing both sides and then claiming to be honest. Thats why when a woman tells me they are.. i finish my drink and keep walking.

What do you mean you get 'played' they don't show up? They want money? She only wants a girl, or she only wants the guy? Define what you mean by 'played' and perhaps some advice (coming from someone who has successfully added a 3rd before)...

They tell us they want us and wants to meet and when you set it up they don't really want to meet or you talk to them and then all at once they stop and tell you they are not really sure

WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY ALLOWING PEOPLE TO TREAT US THAT WAY....OK

LETS SEE FOR DRAMA TO HAPPEN YOU NEED A VICTIM, PERSECUTOR, AND A RESCUER.....IT

JUST SO HAPPENS PEOPLE HAVE STARTING GATE POSITIONS, AND EACH ONE FEELS

JUSTIFIED IN THERE POSITION....THATS THE SHORT OF IT.....OUR BEHAVIOR IS A

REFLECTION OF OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS SO WE KEEP TRYING TO

VALIDATE THOSE BELIEFS AND IN THE PROCESS WE DEVELOP FAVORITE FEELINGS ALSO....


I HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT WHAT IS UNDERNEATH ALL THE SURFACE NOISE.....IN OTHER

WORDS BAD IDEA,RARELY WORKS OUT IN THE LONG RUN.....

First let me ask are you looking for a ome-time thing or trying to find someone for an ongoing thing?

Go with a plastic one.. they don't give you such a hard time. Just keep air in it and keep it in the spare room.

Wow, Greeneyes! Looks like problem solved! So can we kill the drama now? Thank you!