Topic: Am I doing this WRONG or what???
guyinnanaimo's photo
Mon 10/31/16 09:07 PM
I get a MINGLE2 message that 15 people want to meet me, but I have to rate them and see who it is?
I go through 24 pictures and stopped: none were of interest, and the pictures just go on and on!
And the SEARCH criteria I had set up isn't working: I get people sveral HUNDRED miles away...
What the HELL is going on?
This happens almost daily: a message that there's people interested, nothing is a YES after literally 50-75 pictures of ladies from all over....
This is a JOKE!
HELP!

no photo
Tue 11/01/16 06:14 PM
I think that's just to get you to upgrade and pay for a membership.

If you really want to find someone stay in the forums you'll have more success and run into less fake profiles.

NotPay4Play's photo
Tue 11/01/16 06:23 PM

I think that's just to get you to upgrade and pay for a membership.

If you really want to find someone stay in the forums you'll have more success and run into less fake profiles.


True. And you'll be interacting with active users and not deactivated or inactive profiles.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/01/16 06:24 PM

I get a MINGLE2 message that 15 people want to meet me,
but I have to rate them and see who it is?Yes.

I go through 24 pictures and stopped: none were of interest,
and the pictures just go on and on!Those 15 must still
be in there.


And the SEARCH criteria I had set up isn't working: I get
people sveral HUNDRED miles away...The system will expand
the search criteria if there are too few members near you,
it is always YOUR option.


Pippi68's photo
Tue 11/01/16 09:57 PM
I've found the same thing. It also appears that the majority haven't been on the site in over a month.
Thanks for the advice about the forums - might get involved in a few more.

Do you also get a lot of 'hook up' type messages? It's really irritating.

mzrosie's photo
Tue 11/01/16 11:21 PM

Do you also get a lot of 'hook up' type messages? It's really irritating.


After setting your email filters, you have the further option to
Delete / Block / User Report Abuse/Spam any unwanted emails.

guyinnanaimo's photo
Mon 11/14/16 05:09 PM
OH NO IT DOESN'T.
Ever time I log in, it sends me people within 250 miles!
Hell I'm in Canada and I get people in Israel, fr Chrissake!
It's a joke.

guyinnanaimo's photo
Mon 11/14/16 05:10 PM
I do get kind of anonymous emails from apparently ladies who want me to go to a website and 'see' them ~ "no credit card, no sign-up necessary"....
Yeah, right!

NotPay4Play's photo
Mon 11/14/16 06:39 PM

I do get kind of anonymous emails from apparently ladies who want me to go to a website and 'see' them ~ "no credit card, no sign-up necessary"....
Yeah, right!


Those are scammers. Report them by clicking on the report button on their profiles or messages.

Yup you have to keep setting the distance in your search some times.