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Topic: How come instant messenger doesnt work
KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:27 PM
Im new to this but only will say ***waiting for ___ to connect? Could this be becasue maybe thier scared to answer, but i dont know the steps you should take when talking to someone on here, im more of a direct person i guess

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:29 PM
They might not ever answer. I don't generally reply...unless I know the person...already. Try sending her an email first and see if she reply's to that. It is ONLY a sugggestion.

thumper95's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:29 PM
it dont work for me either,,, but i said something about it the other night and never got a response

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:29 PM
They might have their IM turned off...
E-mail them- it helps to get to know someone before Iming...
Welcome to JSH... flowerforyou

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:30 PM
Ahh are people afriad on here to reply to you? I think i have sent message but no luck maybe im too direct you think? How do you people send first time messages?

eileena9's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:30 PM
Hello and Welcome to JSH......sometimes people don't answer IM's unless they have spoken to the person in emails first. Some guys use the IM's for cheap pick-up or nasty conversations, and the ladies are tired of it. Try to send an email first and then ask if you can IM......Just my opinion though.flowerforyou flowerforyou

brian325's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:31 PM
Yeah most don't like to be sent an instant message and won't answer from someone new or someone they haven't talked to before. Best advice is to post in the forums and get to know peeps first. Send an email before an instant message, you'll get better results (cross your fingers though), good luck to ya! drinker drinker drinker

bearfan385's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:31 PM
Just depends if they see the instant message notice pop up on their screen. I know that I have missed it a few times myself. It doesnt hurt to email people you interested in at first but do what you think is best for yourself.

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:33 PM
Hey thanks for the reply guys, SO is there a way to deny this and let me know they denied my request? or do i have to keep this box up forever =)... I will try send emails first however

brian325's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:34 PM
Yes I believe it will tell you you've been denied, but don't take that to heart. It's just because they are shy maybe. drinker drinker drinker

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Mon 11/12/07 08:35 PM
Brian broke it

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:35 PM
Well both are online still and it still says waiting =) so who knows =P
* i generally post in Facebook in the Christian and non-christian groups so date chating is new to me

Anyone got a favorite Football team?


thedoors's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:36 PM
I'm never denied but then I am incredibly good looking.

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:37 PM
I thought i was at one point =\.. maybe i need more sexy pictures, like wearing a cowboy hat?

thedoors's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:38 PM
Yeah, mix in a cowboy hat and some facial hair and the chicks here are all over you!

txsweet's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:38 PM
email them they might have it turn off...

brian325's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:38 PM
I didn't break it, CCP threw her pink panties over it and smothered the motherboard. laugh laugh laugh

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:38 PM
Hmm this will take a while, any quick fixes?

*grabs his cowboy hat

thedoors's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:39 PM
Yeah, mix in a cowboy hat and some facial hair and the chicks here are all over you!

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Mon 11/12/07 08:39 PM
Lol to brians post

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