Same reason it doesn't happen in real life, just because too people are looking for a relationship doesn't automatically mean they are a match for each other.

I think that may be the biggest flaw in people's especially men's attitudes when it comes to online dating "hey babe, if you're on here. ..it means your desperate. ..so you're in luck here I AM to rescue you!"

They don't take time to even actually evaluate if they're a good match.....they ASSume that they a 'catch' and ANY woman on the site would be lucky to get with them...

Dating, relationships, and yes even finding the right girl all takes ACTIVE effort....I see people on sites for years..and never one date...my buddy said he was tired of not getting any dates...so I askes him how many he askes out...his answer ZERO....

efforr in, reward out...it takes more than filling in a profile and sending one or two emails....

and sometimes it takes being realistic. ..if you're 60, fat, bald, and poor you're chances dating Jennifer Aniston are pretty low....doesn't matter how sweet you, or how loyal you are, chances are slim to none.....life isn't fair. ..

if you truly value sweet and loyal that much, then don't be hypocritical and only look for '10s' that have those qualities.....