Jimmy .. Send her on a sex worship .. Even attractive girls need to know how to please a man .. Being attractive is not enough . She should learn how to turn you on . If she is expecting you to arouse yourself then there is a whole world or porn out there .. Perhaps experiment :-)

I get the suspicion that this thread was started so that the OP could brag about his sexual activity.

This is very common, especially among younger and less experienced people.

You have confused quantity of sex, with quality of the relationship. You fear that if the quantity of sex wanes, that the relationship will falter. And as many people do in reaction to that, you turn to artificial stimulation.

Most of the time, using porn to some degree is not a problem. But in this kind of situation, using porn at all, means the sex you are having, is no longer based on caring for each other, and is instead a mechanical function, no different than regularly performing maintenance on a car.

If the other person is after having you as much as possible, and after pleasing each other, then they will adjust as needed to make the lower amount of sex work. Don't use tricks like porn or drugs, or you wont be giving them the real thing, and everything will fail.

If the other person BOTH demands that the quantity of sex never fall off, AND refuses to allow you to compensate in any way, it means that the relationship is just about sex for them, and is doomed anyway, because they don't give a crap about YOU, just the sex. They WILL find another sex tool to replace you soon.

Therefore, faking as you are doing is a lose-lose choice. Staying with what's possible but real, isn't necessarily win-win, but it is win-reality.

Do what she says she wants, be real, and if she leaves, it will be the right thing for both of you. If she stays and adjusts, it will also be the best thing for both of you.

Do the math.

Make a porn video of you two and watch that with her...
Then you can sell it and make some money...

That sounds like another good idea but selling or sharing is not an option. Are you planning to get me killed??

Technically that would solve your problem but I don't recommend you get yourself killed.

Fine, make it for your personal use. We will hack your computer later and make sure you are speaking the truth on the 2-3 hour sessions... Those are fun though... lol

That sounds like a solution...I can try that thanks

I think you are taking it in a different way. I love sex and I wanted it this way i.e. marathon sex. My sex is not depended on porn, it is just the cool off time which I am trying to reduce with the help of porn. Okay let me give more details to clarify your doubt, she lives in LA and I am in orange county so we mostly meet in weekends which causes this sex drive between us. Nothing is fake or deceptive here but real american love making , now because she thinks I am in porn more I am trying to find a alternative way like someone suggested to get a head.

My gf is a very attractive gal and I get excited just by her touch, I guess you guys can understand right. Because of so much excitement we normally have marathons on bed and lucky for me she loves sex too. After sometime it becomes exhausting so I switch on porn to continue the session with which she was fine but nowadays she complains that I am more interested in porn than her and I require porn to have sex with her. It is not like I need porn to have sex with her, it is just that I need time to recover which shortens if I see porn. Is something wrong in seeing porn?? (it is just gal on gal or normal sex porn)

Rather, she can try it.

Don't really see why you make such a problem out of it. It's quite normal a guy cannot keep up with a woman in that sense. Are you trying to break the laws of physics? Will only result in both becoming resentful when it comes to sex in the end.
Turning on porn is a real nice rejection for a woman. Brilliant idea!
If she isn't sated yet after you two been intimate and you want to please her further, use toys. Get a nice collection going.
You have to accept that men can't keep up and that porn will not do your relationship any good when used the way you do it.
She will have to accept that a man can't keep up and maybe learn to control herself a tad more. That will make it all the better when you do have sex together again and will take pressure of you to have to perform. Cos that could in the long run lead to ED and that's the last thing you'd want, or her for that matter.

You have totally missed the point. SHE thinks you are using porn to fake it. Or, that what you really want is the porn, and that you are using her as porn, not as a mate.

If you look for ANOTHER way to fake things, it wont help.

But okay, I can see you are completely convinced that finding a way to fake it is the way to go, so I'll leave you to your quest.

is she right?

have you become addicted to it?


have you used it to try to define

a relationship in real life?

porn will sefinitely make women jealous and angry and with good reason. it makes them feel inferior and like they can't please.. thank God there is nothing out there, a fake penis for example, that they would just during sex to finish the job the man cant...
I am not decrying dildos, but porn has helped me in the same way. I think people need to be comfortable enough to say WHY they are using them.

Jimmy I usually like your posts...I think this one is just a little bit "Personal" I just wonder if your girlfriend knows about you telling the whole world and what her reaction will be?

Well she prefers my tongue or other parts rather than toys. Initially she was the shy type (in trying stuffs) so porn was used to break the ice with both our consents. Once she was open, things became great and marathons started but as I was out of practise so my cooling period was more. In that time I used toys, tongue and fingers to keep her going. Later with her consent I used porn to reduce the cooling period and it worked wonders but now suddenly she started complaining.