what have made you finally decide to venture for another chance in love?

For me it was because my wonderful wife came along and intrigued me with her insight and banter. After we chatted for awhile I knew I'd found a truly amazing person and that it was worth it to take that chance again.

The ever dwindling spark in the back of my mind that there may be hope, even for me, but fortunately with ever year alone it becomes less and less noticeable. Maybe someday being alone will no longer bother me at all, that will be nice.

realizing that it's not "taking a chance" and the approach should not have "love" as a goal.

IMO/IME with that mindset (venture for another chance in love) it becomes little different than asking "what have made you finally decide to venture for another chance at finding the decoder ring in the box of cap'n crunch?"

I think for me I never stopped taking the "chance"

We take chances everyday we choose to get out of bed in the morning. We don't know what will happen.

So yes I was always open for it to happen and now that it has I feel a thousand times blessed.

Nothing. Not venturing at all. I don't like venturing unless it is part of hiking in a national park.

I always take chances .... I may have fears and doubts but it doesn't stop me from facing and fighting to take the risk. Feeling optimistic.... thinking of all the possibilities in life. I feel good with a happy heart.....hopeful

Tired of the wild, blinding, meaningless sex.

I sorted myself out. No issues.
The kids have left home
I want someone to have an adventure with.
I have more to offer, I don't want to rely on him. I'm an independent, confident, a little bit stubborn woman.

I'm too young for the rocking chair just yet.

I want to believe it isn't too late to find the right man.

I was not keen into dating that so soon.

merely enjoying bantering once in awhile in the forums .
and creating new friends along the way.

what prompted me to venture to give another chance in the field of romance.
is the fact that am finally speaking with someone where in we are in the same horizon.

not so dissimilar in values and perspective in life's in general.

my journey with dad didn't threatens me.for the first time.for the very first time I felt secured.

and most importantly,he acknowledges me as his woman.he stood by me.
merely few of the incalculable reasons I trusted once again.

That's so beautiful and heartfelt.
I love you mummy.