has anyone noticed that dating isnt like it use to be. Back in the olden days guys would court a girl... go on walks, take her to dinner, do chivarlous things..nowadays guys think that if they take you out you have to put out or even women now a days are just out for bootycalls only... i am just curious what happened to commitment and romance?

Dont worry hun I wonder the same thang almost everyday.... What we both need is a real man to prove to us that they arent all the same

Commitment and Romance....??

Do people know what it is now a days, I don't think so. I find it hard now a days to relate to the dating world of today, so much ahs changed over the years....

It depends on the guy. I'm totally not like your description at all. It appears most women prefer the guy who wants sex to the sweet guy who will treat them well and go with the olden ideas. I like the idea of hand holding and candle light dinners etc but no girls have interest in me it seems

feminism

i am a nice guy who believes in being a gentlemen and treating a woman right!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeh, I do. Thats why I am called slow. IE undesireble.

blame bush! he gets blamed for everything else thats wrong.

Yep I noticed that a "date" has a whole new meaning. You have to let them know where you stand right from get go.

Again the problem lies in these women who care more about looks and money then how a guy treats them. You ladies say you want a gentlemen then when you get one it's "lets be friends" or something like that.

it seems that almost all of the traditional romantics are still married to their high school sweetheater,haha, or have given up and moved to Provence and retired in the wine country.

As for me, it's like swimmimg up river in mud!!!

The problem is this for guys. If you try anything at all, you're a SEX MANIAC. If you don't, you're a ZERO.

So how can you win?

I like the romantic kind of guys... but it seems on the last few dates Ive had we've gone to dinner and then "hey wanna have sex". NO THANKS! Looks arent a big issue for me. What I look for is trust/truthfulness, communication, and personality. I've had the crappy guys who just want sex, the controlling guys, and the druggy/abusive guys... its time for me to met a nice, caring guy who likes me for myself.

not true in all scenerios...if a guy is genuinely trying then a woman will give him the time of day..its when you see a guy is trying and saying things just because he thinks he can get in your pants... happens way to often..ie ... go out to a resturant having great conversation thinking its going great then a guy asks you a question like how much do you masturbate a week, or what do you like to do sexually, favorite position and lets forget the rest of the date but go back to your place and make out. just seems that a nice guy is hard to come by

I agree with fanatic

dont realy beleive in commitments they fall short of being fullfilling an when they become descent they pack up an move away with a peice of your soul. i think one nighters are great fun for a night an then go home . lol

why one nighters..isnt nice to have someone to spend everynight with and if it doesnt work out yes it hurts but thank goodness for memories and you learn something from it and make the next relationship greater until you find that one person

Sorry, you may want to adjust your ideas of a nice guy. I don't know what you normally look for.

gotta say..... very very rare anymore

I think it's 50/50 anymore girls can play you and so can guys