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Topic: what i miss about my ex?
davidsechristopher Joined Sat 09/03/16 Posts: 41	Thu 09/08/16 06:39 PM
She was good at keeping the checkbook and the financial budget. I miss that. She loved to drive and I don't enjoy driving that much. So I miss going out together and having her drive. I remember some strange looks as we'd both walk to the driver side door and I'd open the door for her so she could get in and then go around to the passenger side to let myself in. It's easier to think of things I miss about a relationship in general than things I miss about her.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Thu 09/08/16 06:40 PM
Well I am great friends with my EX.. Just because we couldn't make it as a couple doesn't mean he is a bad person, he isn't. We just want different things out of life.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Thu 09/08/16 07:14 PM


tmh1063 Joined Fri 07/01/16 Posts: 1965	Thu 09/08/16 08:27 PM
I miss hanging out with him and doing things together. I miss going to the beach, going boating or to the movies with him or just playing a board game in the evening. I miss the way we would cook dinner together and I miss snuggling with him at night. I miss the emotional connection. I just hope that I can find something close to it or better in the next man I fall in love with.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Fri 09/09/16 02:32 PM
After 4 years? Wouldn't be healthy if I still missed something ...

NeonMidnight Joined Tue 08/30/16 Posts: 772	Sun 09/11/16 09:03 AM Edited by NeonMidnight on Sun 09/11/16 09:16 AM
my ex husband's cute butt and great hair

BreakingGood Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 3182	Sun 09/11/16 09:26 AM
After 4 years? Wouldn't be healthy if I still missed something ... Sure it would. Don't miss the person miss the attributes.

Blizi Joined Fri 10/30/15 Posts: 23	Sun 09/11/16 09:31 AM
I don't really miss much about him but the good times we have had. And his cooking.

Emife500 Joined Thu 01/22/15 Posts: 6	Tue 09/13/16 05:30 AM
She's funny! I'm funny! Funny relationship is gone

lLoyalMommy Joined Sat 09/10/16 Posts: 10	Tue 09/13/16 05:36 AM
Nothing :P I got to keep the best thing he did for me :P (my kiddo)

yetanotherusername1 Joined Mon 06/13/16 Posts: 681	Tue 09/13/16 07:08 AM
I miss many things about my past relationships. They were all great women. I don't see a point starting something with anybody less then great. The Good Things: I miss the back and forth humor with her. I miss the emotional and physical closeness to her. I miss her being on my side when it seems the world is against me. In general, I miss her taking up the slack for my weaknesses and in turn I miss being able to help her with her weaknesses. I miss being able to help her feel happy about being alive. I miss holding hands and going for walks. I used to really enjoy walking hand in hand viewing Christmas displays and goofing a round. I miss being able to be part of a team going in the same direction. I miss cooking for more then just myself. I miss her caring for me when I was ill. The Bad Things: Hmmmm. I guess they don't really matter any more. I'd rather remember the good things. Nice points, I agree, I'd rather focus on the good things we had. No point on holding grudges, she's still a good person and a great mom. A couple really simple things I remember about her was when she was washing dishes she would always hum, that was always soothing to me for some reason, and when we were at gatherings we would lock eyes across the room and she had a sweet kind smile she would give me. When we divorced I went through a phase of "I'm not gonna be like those couples that stay friends, she had her chance" that has since changed and have 3 kids with her I believe it's for the better for all of us.