I am new at this on-line dating relm. I don't have any problem finding Mr. Right Now, (you know the ones, just want to jump in bed). I even occasionally find the "looking for my soul mate" guy ( these guys tend to be alittle to hard core for me)

But where are the in the middle guys (the ones that want to see how it goes, take it slow and wait for what can develop)

Am I being unrealistic?

well if you find another female... I will be in hte middle


ok sorry I couldnt resist

Well there is more then one kind of middle- I guess...

You are not being unrealistic-
you just know what you want.

Apeabody...I am told there are here somewhere, they just haven't surfaced yet. I am told if I am patient, he will come.

Just a reminder ladies ... It is dear season so be creful you may get shot.

lol

well atleast I will try to bag ya

lol

Men see things in black & white. If they aren't ONE thing, they're the other.

If you only want guys for one-night stands, that's fine.
If you want the guys who are looking for deeper relationships but don't know how to cope with them, you need to fix some personal problem(s) about yourself.

Take your time. HE is out there for you. It may take kissing a few frogs, but you shall find your prince.

OMG, I'm quoting fairy tales. I do believe in fairy tales though.

M

I'm In the middle.........always in the middle of no where distance wise........

Well, I'm not here looking for anything, but I am open to whatever comes my way. I wouldn't mind meeting a lady that just wants to go out every now and then, just hang out together, and see what happens.

My whole thing is this...if the ladies would not jump in bed with the guys...then maybe there would be more decent guys out there maybe?? I think all the ladies need to stop doing what they are doing....this in return would make the men change their evil ways~~~so ladies, stop with the booty calls!!

Mr. Inthemiddle is probably already married!

Welcome and have fun!

At first glance I thought this thread was about a threesome...

but I hear what you're saying apeabody.

I thought it was another porn title!

just want everybody to know that i'm inthe middle, of what ????????????lol.

Artist: Stealers Wheel
Song: Stuck in the Middle With You





Well I don't know why I came here tonight,
I got the feeling that something ain't right,
I'm so scared in case I fall off my chair,
And I'm wondering how I'll get down the stairs,
Clowns to the left of me,
Jokers to the right, here I am,
Stuck in the middle with you.

Yes I'm stuck in the middle with you,
And I'm wondering what it is I should do,
It's so hard to keep this smile from my face,
Losing control, yeah, I'm all over the place,
Clowns to the left of me, Jokers to the right,
Here I am, stuck in the middle with you.

Well you started out with nothing,
And you're proud that you're a self made man,
And your friends, they all come crawlin,
Slap you on the back and say,
Please.... Please.....

Trying to make some sense of it all,
But I can see that it makes no sense at all,
Is it cool to go to sleep on the floor,
'Cause I don't think that I can take anymore
Clowns to the left of me, Jokers to the right,
Here I am, stuck in the middle with you.

Well you started out with nothing,
And you're proud that you're a self made man,
And your friends, they all come crawlin,
Slap you on the back and say,
Please.... Please.....

Well I don't know why I came here tonight,
I got the feeling that something ain't right,
I'm so scared in case I fall off my chair,
And I'm wondering how I'll get down the stairs,
Clowns to the left of me,
Jokers to the right, here I am,
Stuck in the middle with you,
Yes I'm stuck in the middle with you,
Stuck in the middle with you.