Topic: dating with different ages!
keeblerelfin89's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:36 PM
Do you think,that it is okay for guys to date women that are older then them,or for women to date guys older then them? Let me know?

bearfan385's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:38 PM
I personally like dating an older man and my age group is no more than 10 yrs older than me. I have learned over the last year or so that most older guys are maturer than the guys i have tried to date who were younger than me or my same age. I guess it also depends on what you are looking for though. I wish you the best of luck in what you are trying to find.

keeblerelfin89's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:39 PM
I found it okay because its whats inside that counts am I not right?

boredinaz06's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:40 PM
age is only what you make of it! I date as much as 10 yrs younger but not older.

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Sat 11/10/07 12:41 PM
its up to the people who are involved. i think as long as the people are honest and respectful to each other age shouldn't be a problem.

keeblerelfin89's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:41 PM
I would date an older guy as long as he treated me nice and had respect for me and didnt play around behind my back!

FallinAngel82's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:42 PM
i dont care how old they are .. granted.. dont wanna date a man younger than me.. but i'll date and older man as long as he's not as old or older than my father.. thats just creeppy to me

Queene123's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:42 PM
as long as there legal age, it shouldnt matter my ex hubby is 4ys younger than me..... but if there like 16-20yrs younger wouldnt you feel that you would be there parent... there is guy that i have been talking to for over 2yrs and hes 16yrs younger than me and he has expressed his feelings if i was to date him it would feel like i was dating my own childnoway

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Sat 11/10/07 12:43 PM
Honestly I think age is just a number. If you are both attracted to eachother mentally as well as physically then it really doesn't matter what age you are. Well, within the law anyway lol. Oddly for me though I tend to find I am more attracted to older women mentally and younger women physically, although not always the case.

andreajayne's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:45 PM
i prefer older guys, usually upto about 10ish years older, but if you find the right person, age shouldnt mean a thing.

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Sat 11/10/07 12:46 PM
I think the age difference should be within 10 years. The most important factors are compatibility of similar interests, values and goals.

bearfan385's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:50 PM
I agree with Illusion... age is just a number. But people do have their limits as people have pointed out. It also depends on the compatibility of each person as well to find out what your comfortable with and how big of an age gap you want to work with.

Dragoness's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:57 PM
I have dated 20+ years older and 10-15 years younger, I have to say the more years difference the more difficulties there are. I think if the two are willing to work it out it can be done though. bigsmile

Winx's photo
Sat 11/10/07 12:59 PM
My ex is 5 years younger than me.