a lady on my friends list wanted me to come to cali to meet her she said she would show me the great places to take pics
she said we could spend the day in bed and take pics later in the day well when i told her i wasnt interested in the sex thing
cuz if i spend my time driving that far im gonna spend my time shooting cool sites
she threw a fit and poof gone

My experience was similar, shutterguy. I expressed concern that there could be a compatibility problem to someone who emailed me. All I said was that I was 'scared' by his obvious pro-army/military feelings since I am very anti-war. The response to this relatively mild comment was very hostile, including a rather nasty personal attack.

So, Jack Nicholson may be right....many can't take the truth no matter how gently it's presented.

If you don't want truth don't ask me......cuz that's all you will get on anything.

yup, up front and honest,,bring it on,,

When I tell guys sex starts inthe head with me,,the one on your SHOULDERS,,they bolt,,

Are they being honest?

Or are they cowards cause they won't admit they just wanna f&ck me?

go ahead......tell me Im old....ugly and smell like an ashtray......I can take it!!!!!!!!

msn,

It's unfortunate if you didn't like the other persons email or post but isn't that perfect? I try to get the important parts out of the way early in a relationship so that I don't waste time. Unfortunately it still didn't work as "other issues" such as depression get in the way...

The truth of what the other person said ended up being an attack to you.... If so then you've not wasted much time. If they apologize maybe... maybe they deserve another chance.

John

what is the meaning of truth? go see monty python and he will tell you how to handle the situation.

I agree with UWannaB that at least I didn't waste time, but the response received was really uncalled for...nothing to do with truth, just a wish for bad things to happen to me. Truth is easy to deal with.

Absolutelly... the truth. And I would even rather it be harsh that just be ignored.

first quote:"Okay, this site is for finding compatible friends, etc, so if you contact someone to express your interest, do you want that person to reply honestly about areas of incompatibility or would you rather not know?

Example, you are a smoker, but that is a problem for the person contacted. Is it better to hear this? Or, say you're very pro-military & the other person is anti-war.."


yes give it to me straight up.... cant stand liars. maybe thats why i never date anymore i always pick the loosers, or maybe its just me? hmm, will have to ponder this tonight cause i just confused myself

honesty and truth is the best policy