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Topic: A little advice,please
nu2topcat's photo
Fri 11/09/07 07:17 AM
only do what you feel comfortable doing. as a guy, yes sex is important to me but a ltr or great companionship is more so. if that was all he could talk about then that was probably all he was interested in. keep looking

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/09/07 07:21 AM
For SURE you did the right thing.
If he makes waves, then he is not worth it.
ALWAYS listen to that inner voice, never go wrong that way.

no photo
Fri 11/09/07 07:24 AM
Yep...flowerforyou

dhutch9's photo
Fri 11/09/07 07:35 AM
I was second guessing myself,but I feel better now. Thanks guys. The older I get,the more I've learned to trust myself. I guess sometimes you just need people to reinforce what you already knew.

Not2Shy's photo
Fri 11/09/07 07:54 AM
God gives you (us all) a "gut feeling" for a reason. You TOTALLY did the right thing. Don't look back.......... :smile:

Donnafisher's photo
Fri 11/09/07 08:04 AM
yup did the right thing if he really likes you for you he'll stop with the sex thing and still want to meet youflowerforyou flowerforyou

voodoo25's photo
Fri 11/09/07 08:39 AM
I have found that not all guys are like that but the ones that are,totally deserve a swift kick in the ass and it most commonly turns out to be about sex,sex,sex.You did the right thing you go women..............:wink:

INEEDLOVEFROMYOU's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:02 AM
If he made you feel that way then you did the right thing.No matter if he was the best guy in the world,if you feel that way then that is how you feel.A relationship is only good if you value the other persons feelings and they value yours.He needed to be more responsive to you and your feelings.Most people seem to just care about themselves and what they can do to please themselves .I hope we all find soneone to listen to and love us.NEVER let people make you do something you do not want to do.

mbcasey's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:06 AM
You done good....instincts are an A+ on this one!

Twitch's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:12 AM
It's always been my experience to listen to my gut feeling. It's always been right about someone. I know it sucks and hurts but sometimes you just need to listen. Sorry this happened to you. Good Luck on whatever you decide to do.

beccalee1980's photo
Fri 11/09/07 12:49 PM
i don't blame you one bit..if u were uncomfortable with him, then of course you shouldn't meet him...sounds like he was just in it for a booty call, and i don't blame u one bit for not wanting to meet him. i think u did the right thing.
Becca

MicheleNC's photo
Fri 11/09/07 05:47 PM
Trust your gut! You were quite smart for doing so.

If he was out for more than a booty call, it would not have been all sex talk all the time.

Don't waste your time worrying about it!

Hugs, M

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