hes being really secretative and lately hes been gettin calls and text messages really early in the morning from weird numbers and everytime i ask him who they are he says the wrong number..but hes been acting weird. am i just paranoid? should i confront him...? i dont want him to think im accusing him or anything....but its really gtting to me.

I would confront him. He is acting to shady, and usually that kind of actions means he's cheating. Are they always at the same time in the morning? I mean come on .. how many people can get the wrong number so many times?

no to disappoint you but my husband did the same thin and it turns out he was cheating on me i would confront him

If you even have a feeling he's cheating on you, get rid of him cause most likely, your gut feeling is correct.

Also, read the other forums because this damn topic is all over the place.

hmm true. and no theyre at all dif times. but i did notice that first he'll recieve like 2 or 3 texts and then a call. and so on.

confront him .you won't know unless you ask.if he denies it call the numbers back when he's asleep or goes to the loo.

I would go by my GUT instincts. If you think somethings wrong, there is probably something not right about it. There is no such thing as being paranoid in this situation. I hope you are ok, even if the worst happens.

thanks. i think im going to do that tonite when he gets off work. im just hoping my gut feelings wrong

Hmmm... if he doesn't explain why, then he doesn't choose to explain why.

Respect?
Doesn't appear to be the case.

Don't check up on him, ask him outright....and be prepared for the answer.

If he denies, ask him, if it was the other way around, would he be a little concerned, and wondering.

I still say call the number.Maybe the other gal can give her some lovemaking tips..

Just come right out and ask him...You know him the best...but be ready for whatever the answer is...I wish you all the best with this...I know it sucks...but you need to know....

cut that zero girl

hey hey hey hold it.....what if he is not cheatin on you...what is it somethin that needs space....what if he is tryin to help some one and dont really wanna bother you with it...what if the person on the other side is bothering him.....
if you go and confront him...and ur gutt feelin proves wrong...he is gonna feel bad...your gonna hurt him...ur gonna ruin a perfect relation...may be he wont say that to you....but he'll feel it.....see love is like a thin string o thread...if yuo break it you could tie a knot there but every time you look back at it you can see that knot....

my advise to you is instead, just sit down take him into confidence...and let him konw what you feel..not in a blaming way but in a suttel way...well i guess your smart enough to understand...how???

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here is your reading
a message concerning another person or a situation will arrive soon where unexpected sources will arise as where i see legal issue that will take place as welll victory of sucess as finding ut the truth of where abouts....... so meaning yes he is cheating. and i will tell you this much when you confront him, and he starts to laugh that one sign that you caught him, as my ex hubby cheated and when i caught him or knew it he laughed about it


DUMP HIM

I honestly think if you even think that it is happening, even if its not, maybe you should rethink your relationship. If I ever wondered what my bf was doing, he would be gone. I believe that trust makes up 95% of a relationship. and even though he is giving reasons to think differently if you cant trust him, what do you have really.

Where there is smoke, there is fire.

i feel u but if he is cheating then im not gunna just let him keep doing it. i mean im not gunna like ***** and scream and break up wit him. everyones deserves a second chance so if he is then alls im gunna want is a explanation as to why. and if he does it again...then hes gunna hear the bithin. and i wont take him back a 2nd time. but still i dont know if he is. but ill confront him tonite but not in a way of accusing him ima just tell him i find it a little strange. and the next time that number shows up on his fone ima make him answer it and tell them to stop callin. and if he wont answer it then right there to me is him basically telling me its another woman. rit. but thanks everyone for the advice. i apprecaite it alot.

he may not be in the cheating stage yet .it maybe a friend or a shady drug deal.Or he cold be buying you a ring or gift.There are so many different things it could be so have a conversation and see what happens.

Call him on it. Get it out and then deal with it per what is really going on. No judging, but don't be a mat either.

Dont torture youself wondering... cause even if you confront him, if he's cheating, he's already lying to you, so what makes you think he's going to be like oh yeah i'm sorry.

My ex husband would come up with every excuse in the book until one day, I had left him, went to see a lawyer, got the divorce papers, then confronted him with known facts, what she looked like, her name, where he was with her, and who all was there (gotta love loyal bartenders) before he admited he had another woman, but at that time, he still would not admit to having her before the seperation. We are divorced now, I know they were together for about 6 months before i knew, but he still will not come out with the truth.

Once a lying cheating dog, always a lying cheating dog!

Do yourself a favor and lose him now. He'll just try to brainwash you into staying, then you'll regret you did it!

I have faith you will make the right decision, you seem really nice and you seem to have a good head on your shoulders.


Most of all though, if you do not trust him now, a relationship will not work out!