Topic: Will You ?
Seakolony's photo
Fri 08/05/16 02:41 PM
Yeah or whoever they choose. The first time I set myself against someone of their closing the sooner the defiance begins. Negativity breeds negativity.

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 02:47 PM
Will you let your child date or marry somebody like you?

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 02:58 PM
You know, I wonder , if a hot tempered person will give their children to somebody that is hot tempered like themspock

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:00 PM
I'm laying here thinking about how one person is ruining somebody's child's life

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:02 PM
Edited by alchayil on Fri 08/05/16 03:12 PM
The reason why I raise the question like this, for instance if i'm playa and i dont want my daughter to get played by somebody like me then then it means i have to improve my life. Thats why i ask will you give your child to somebody like you,because u want the best for that child

no photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:03 PM

Will you let your child date or marry somebody like you?


"Let", I don't really have a choice in who they choose.

But if they are like me today, then I am good with that.
Me 20 years ago, not so much but I can't control their decisions...

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:05 PM

Will you let your child date or marry somebody like you?

Not sure where you are from...but I don't think we can CHOOSE who they date or marry
You know, I wonder , if a hot tempered person will give their children to somebody that is hot tempered like them


Give?

There is this thing called "free will" and as much as some parents try to "influence" their children's lives, they can not pick their friends, dates or spouses.JMO

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Fri 08/05/16 03:09 PM


There is this thing called "free will" and as much as some parents try to "influence" their children's lives, they can not pick their friends, dates or spouses.JMO


I believe "free will" is the basis of everyone's life.

Everything we do, we choose to do.

Seakolony's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:15 PM
Apparently we don't viw our negativities to be all that bad. Doesn't mattrnyou can not make your child choose what you want for them. If you try to force your decisions on your child, well you will lose, and maybe lose your relationship with your child.

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:15 PM
I know we have a free will. We all choose who we want to date or marry. All I want to know is will u give ur child to someone like u. If you a murderer will u give ur child to a murderer?

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:29 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Fri 08/05/16 03:30 PM

Will you let your child date or marry somebody like you?

Actually if my children chose to marry or date someone like me I would tell them good luck and mean it. I know I can be a pain in the arse to live with. I also know myself pretty well and I know I have a lot to offer someone and honestly my opinion isn't going to matter all that much since my children are all over 30. They are going to do what they want

You know, I wonder , if a hot tempered person will give their children to somebody that is hot tempered like them

In my country USA we don't give our children away well most of us don't anyway. So a Moot point


I'm laying here thinking about how one person is ruining somebody's child's life

This statement intrigues me..IF in your country you have some say then why aren't you doing something about this. And just how old of a child are we talking about??? Lot of variables here



The reason why I raise the question like this, for instance if i'm playa and i dont want my daughter to get played by somebody like me then then it means i have to improve my life. Thats why i ask will you give your child to somebody like you,because u want the best for that child


Chances are in my country if daddy is a playa, they know all the signs and they are gonna pass them by. If you are a playa then if you want what is best for your child why not change and man up and do the right thing.



I know we have a free will. We all choose who we want to date or marry. All I want to know is will u give ur child to someone like u. If you a murderer will u give ur child to a murderer?



Sometimes one of the hardest things a parent can do is let their precious child make their own decisions give them your input, share your knowledge, experiences and hope for the best that they listen.
I remember almost 17 years ago when my eldest married a horrible young woman.. I tried right up til about 2 hours before the wedding to talk him out of it.

He tells me all the time he wishes he listened to me, even though he has 3 children by this person but she has made his life hell. Even after being divorced for 8 years. She drags him into court yearly... either for child support or child custody to be changed in some way... Would I have "given" my son to this thing not on your life....But sadly I had no say in it... So
instead I have been there supporting him emotionally and letting him know that I am so dang proud of him...

Give dang I wish I could have stopped it we don't get that choice

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:34 PM
Sitkarains ,you've answered wonderful.

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:39 PM
Parents should be the role models of their kids,but it seems like some parents lost that role. It is the parents responsibility to train up a child in the way he/she must go

alchayil's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:47 PM
I think we must ask ourselves questions sometimes to improve our lives, to make life better and so miserable. If I'm married or dating I should ask myself questions . if I'm married I should ask myself will I let my son or daughter go through this pain of divorce ,that's when you change your mind

Seakolony's photo
Fri 08/05/16 03:50 PM
I think by the time they reach that age it's time to trust in your child and what you have taught them. My daughter chose well.

BreakingGood's photo
Fri 08/05/16 04:10 PM
Like me, absolutely. But I would feel sorry for the guy. :wink:

lionsbrew's photo
Fri 08/05/16 05:08 PM
My son likes girls so I don't think I need to worry about that. Also Whatever makes my son happy I will support his decision.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:03 PM
Of course not! I wouldn't want my kid marrying another me. The world can't handle two of me. laugh

babykris6c's photo
Sat 08/06/16 12:51 AM
yes. afraid sex drive is hereditary.. my child and that person should be together so that they won't ever go to bed lonely and unsatisfied.