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I have been talkin to someone i met here on JustSayHi for a few months and things really clicked but she never really got over her ex and some of the conversation involved him about he did this or was here for this pretty much showing how great he was. But also knows that he doesnt really treat her all that great sometimes and has no interest in a relationship. I get Frustrated when she knows this but cant get over him so any advice would help
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sledgehammer??? it's very frustrating watching someone you care about continue to make the same mistake over and over...but as for you i think you should back off and let her decide what she really wants and stop letting her use you...brenda
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thanks Brenda for the advice
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It sounds to me like she's not ready to move on. You have a choice, be patient and hope for the best or just let it go. Have you talked about this with her?
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alot.. she tried to quit talkin to him all together like twice but she broke down and called him.. I didnt tell her so couldnt i have no right to but i wanted her to get to the point where she could talk to him and not have all those feelings rush back
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you're welcome bigsexyboy...it sucks when you like someone alot but there's a little glitch in the relationship...good luck
 and a big hug too
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She has to make a choice....you or him. Doesnt sound like she is over him....sorry to say this, but move on if she cant make a decision.
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To be blunt: Kick her to the curb. How old are you man? You look young and you can find a woman without these issues. Screw the drama and ex BS and find a woman who will love you and only you.
And just in case you aren't young lol, shame on you for acting like a young person. 
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it's all timing big...whether it's love,a job, picking the winning lotto numbers...."right numbers wrong drawing"...
maybe you are the right numbers for her but she is still playing last week's drawing... and btw..when are women NOT frustrating??? |
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Yeah, it definitely sounds like she hasn't moved on yet. Sometimes, it takes a while. Problem is, it puts you in a not very pleasant position. I don't envy you that. Were it me, though, I think I'd probably just move on.
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Just turned 22 on OCT 24th so yea im at the point were i dont want to put up with all BS
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Well there ya go, you are young and you can and WILL do better. There is no need to put up with this BS. Also, your stress level will go down and you will be much happier.
Good luck |
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thanks yall 4 the advice
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Yup I'm going to have to agree with sincereguy. If she isnt over him now and she already has a new decent guy then she wont be over him anytime soon. She doesnt want to be over him. I have a close friend who is doing this, and she calls him to be just "friends". you cant be just friends with someone who broke your heart. Tell her it has to end with him or you, you deserve better. good luck.
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thanks amazing
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