You just don't lub me no mo I can tell. >sniffle<

OP .. I totally understand how you feel. That always happens to me. Going to fast usually ends up frontend collision into a brick wall. LMAO

Wow aje and sincere...I just checked out both of your profiles to see if you lived in the same state!! I thought there for a moment you guys were an item

If you feel things are moving to fast, the best thing to do is be totally honest with him. Communication is the key to any relationship...even friendship!! Without the ability to talk, then you are in trouble.
So just talk to him and explain your worries to him. If he doesn't understand and doesn't want to slow down...then obviously, he isn't meant for you. I say this because obviously you guys are not on the same page and you want different things. Sometimes we can love someone but sometimes thats just not enough!!
Good luck

There's something to be said for taking it slow. Rushing into more than you are able to accept or give comfortably makes you feel pressured. There's also the potential that in our haste, we will overlook important clues about the other person...that may later come back to haunt us. Be honest with him, and if he's on the up and up he should understand. Good luck!

Thank you girls! I knew you'd understand!

Just tell him in a way that makes it clear you still really like him.

Like "Hey, I really really like you and I think we have something really special going here, but I need a little more space to sort out my feelings - things are moving too fast and I need to slow it down a little bit - can you do that for me please?" - and throw in some puppy dog eyes while you're at it

I-M-O, it'd work on me anyways if it was a girl I was dating

that is what I'm going through at the moment

I think you should psychoanylize it 24/7 until you have health problems and mental health problems over it.

3 weeks and the way you're describing it....... It sounds like the relationships over. But means over! I really like him but.......its over! Boot him to curb. Quit messin with his head!

I really like you but....

You're really a great guy but......

You're really sweet but......

You're really kind and considerate but.......

Everything is so great and wonderful but.......

Your the first guy whose brought me to hot, sweaty, shaking multiple orgasms and I love you but........

Ya put adverbs, conjunctions, or ultimatums in your relationships......they are over. Don't do it! And? But? If? Either the dog goes or? Don't do it!

Ah go ahead and do it anyway! Disobey my advice! Let's see its november 7. That means when it blows up in your face in 30 days I will have something to read because you will start a thread called "what happened?"

Little things mean a lot.

Hi guys,
I'm new here but I thought I'd toss in my 2 cents. If you don't feel comfortable something isn't right. It may be you or him. certainly talking about it should be on the top of the agenda. In my experience no relationship is worth too much if you can't bring it all to the table to talk. I think this opens up a time of discovery. If nothing else it may shows some clues about security and fears ect. If you feel it is going too fast it probably is.