What's that old line?

Winners never quit & Quiters never win.

Maybe that is why we all keep trying, want to win.
I am alone by choice & will admit, at times it gets hard.
Keep trying folks, hope all become WINNERS.

once for 16 years. I too like everyone else thought I had found my
soulmate and best friend. Wrong. Have been divorced for only a brief
while and have run the gambit of emotions.
I recently decided that I had been exclusive for actually nearly 17 yrs
and that I would not be so again, for a VERY, VERY, long time. LOL. I
have a son, and we pal around together.
I am "shopping" now, and having a blast.

k sage, i guess u know then..a couple of people told me it took
them about 4-5 day to CA..they must of stopped alot, etc..2 day to get
to AR..not bad, now i can really go see Lazy
lol

Ok back to the suject lol

yes I have been married before and even though it didn't work out I can
honestly say I'm glad I did it it has open my eyes to new things and
what is expected of myself in any relationship So live and learn people
because if you don't learn then you bring your old into the new and that
will never work out

I was married for nine years. My divorce was final last month.

She cheated on me after 3 years, when things started getting tough. I
took her back.
And after finishing 6 years of college, and getting her masters degree
in Accounting, she cheated on me again.

This time I told her to hit the road.

So after serving this woman for the past 9 years I have forgotten who I
am. How to be myself again. What Myself is.

I wrote this the night I kicked her out.

"Chilled"

Cold wind, slides across the branches of my very existence
Blowing away the crispy fragments, that were once full, green, alive.
My forest has changed, all is withered, broken, and dead.
I shiver in the roots of my being.

Thanks for listening...klugman

FREE,SINGLE AND DISINGAGE.

FREE,SINGLE AND DISINGAGE.

I am currently married... just waiting for the jugde to sign the
papers... but i dont regret marrying him... i learned a lot. and we have
2 of the most amazing kids ever.

I was married for just a month short of 25 years. It was a very
difficult relationship. Just after we divorced, he was diagnosed with
cancer and died 7 yrs ago. (ok, so I'm old). There are many regrets,
but have learned to move on.

Married at 18 divorced at 19...

no never but i do want to get married one day.

hi all i was married once love time ago --

NEVER Married hope to one day and raise a family with her.

Married once for 11 years, don't regret it have to wonderful kids that
has been my world but have been divorced for 15 lol But with the right
one would do it again. Did not end very good but within time all wounds
heal. At least now we are on talking terms.

3 times... first one lasted 2 weeks (long story there), 2nd one lasted 5
year... got 3 lovely daughters from that marriage. 3rd one 19 years this
June, but getting divorced. I am not sure I will ever get married again.

For a very lonnnng time. I will just leave it at that.

Yep, traded finger rocks & five years later she took the stock Ops. In
the 9 years since, I’ve done a lot of growing and am in a much better
place. Some of it was really tough, but I never take on blame or point
it at anyone else. Dang, I can now say I’m a happy camper.

I am so glad to hear you say that Tameka... too many people are su hurt
that they can not look at the bright side and see the roses.

Married once..divorced 20 years..2 great boys..I dont regret a thing
except it didnt last forever!

yes... dont want to do it again.