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Topic: attachment
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Thu 06/30/16 07:19 PM

was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?


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msmyka's photo
Fri 07/01/16 11:22 AM

was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?


Yes but more of in a hopeful way.... I'm not completely delusional to think I could love someone I've never met.

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Fri 07/01/16 11:31 AM


was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?


Yes but more of in a hopeful way.... I'm not completely delusional to think I could love someone I've never met.


I see some of the women on magazine covers that I have never meet, and I love them!!!
drool drool drool

rofl rofl rofl

calista29's photo
Fri 07/01/16 06:55 PM

if you spend a lot of time online
and you get used to chatting with the same peops

then ya...you do kinda go WTF?? when they disappear


spending half a year chatting,skyping and vibering on a
regular basis would surely brought you closer together.
though,
might caught unaware,but somehow you have had slowly building strong emotional foundation.
and really,letting go becomes too
darn hard!
.....it hurts,huh!grumble

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Fri 07/01/16 07:45 PM
I am there

RustyKitty's photo
Fri 07/01/16 08:06 PM

was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?

by "too emotionally attached", you are meaning your mind and emotions are getting a little out of control over someone you've never met, but have had online conversations with... making your mind extrapilate forward into what future may be....
DON'T DO IT !!
I think it can happen between people who meet in person as well..

calista29's photo
Fri 07/01/16 11:25 PM


was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?

Yes, and it can happen quite easily too.
Women can easily bond with things and ideas before they've manifested into reality, like we already bond with our unborn child.
So if you find yourself in such a place, try to not go overboard, keep pulling yourself back time and again and again.

It's not really all that different from women tending to fall for a guy's potential. We can see it, feel it, sense it, but it's not there yet either (and often time will never come to fruition either). Still, we fall for it, head over heels.
So we have to sort of learn to control that intuitive part, that automatic reflex-like thing.
ESPECIALLY because there are men who know this and exploit it, use it against you for their own pleasure and convenience ...


unarguably,in every aspect women tend to be more emotional per se.(admit it or not)

in this case,I fully raise my both hands(and together with my feet as well!..lol)that I am and I was indeed caught up in the illusion that there could be 'us' in the end.

silly to admit but yeah,it come to a certain point that i felt 'needy'somehow of the person's love and attention as well.

well,strong emotions can ruled over reality.
especially when you've been out from romantic involvement for years.

need I say more?..hay!
just simply crap!
thanks lovely crystalfairyflowerforyou

calista29's photo
Fri 07/01/16 11:27 PM




experienced this a couple of months back.
it was 'heartbreaking' in a way.
just wanna know if the emotion/s I have had felt then was just a trick of mind or the feelings does really existed.

thanks pretty RustyKittyflowerforyou :smile:


emotions are a trick of the mind and they do exist.
It's up to you to work out how you developed them and their significance.

maybe the words for them is, false expectations


there's truth in this...I just fully agreed:smile:

Duttoneer's photo
Sat 07/02/16 03:50 AM

was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?


In my case, it was most surely a scammer that I had started to become emotionally invested with online until I received a request for money, confirmed by their subsequent disappearance after being told no money was to be sent.

If you are open to a long distance relationship, surely you are going to have to have to some extent, an emotional attachment created out of just getting to know each other. Why else are you going to travel hundreds, possibly thousands of miles in order to meet them, if you have no feelings towards them, this is just my opinion.

babykris6c's photo
Sat 07/02/16 04:04 AM

was there ever an instance that it came to a certain point you were too emotionally attached to the person you have had merely met online?


Yes. I get attached very easily.

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Sun 07/03/16 03:02 AM
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