ever found yourself pacing endlessly to sad songs that you know will make you cry while your mind is racing yet stagnant at the same time? ugh... i fell in love with my best friend, but he says its not the same for him. i'm absolutely crushed right now. i can't think or act... just... be. i don't want to love him but i can't help it... how do i make this stop? =(

haha... thanks for the advice. i understand you. its just hard =(

Yeah I fell in love with a best friend once. Only way I could go on (since she didn't feel the same for me) was just let her go from my life and look for someone else. I know, it's really hard! But if you keep seeing him, you'll keep wanting him. He might be mad, but hey, he's the one who doesn't feel the same way. There's always a chance that not having you for a friend at all could wake him up to realize that you were more than a friend. In my case, she got mad, but still never came around, even after I was gone. She just found a new friend. So my suggestion is just let him go and look for someone that can reciprocate your feelings.

wow shutterbug...

Same thing is currently happening to me. She got mad and has not come around. She still wants to talk about it at sometime...when she is ready. For now, I keep my distance. I must admit, it has gotten easier the more time we spend apart. Although, that is not what I want. I will have to wait and see what happends. I also think she is not happy with me not coming around.

We will see...................

I had a close friend that was in love with me. I did not feel the same about him. And it ruined our friendship.

yeah, whisper...that is what I expect to happen. It sucks. We were best of friends. I figured what a great way to start a relationship. We already know how each thinks, acts, and behaves. The sad thing is I think she felt the same, just some other things getting in the way and she is not sure to handle it.

mmhhhmmmm it feels soooo good to wallow in the pain for a minute, just don't stay their too long...and when you least expect it someone will sweep you off your feet and you'll forget all about ...uhm...what was his name again....love, brenda

This guy kept weird, got all jelouse when I told him about my boyfriends. And would not stop flirting with me. It was getting tiredsome not being able to have a a normal conversation with him. He kept sending me these e-mails that kept telling me how he felt about me. I was getting tired of having to change the subject or comming up with things to say to let him down gentley. I saw him as a friend and nothing more. So I finally had to just let him go.

It is sad when this happens because best friends are so close to you. You must except the fact that he has chosen someone else. It is okay to be sad for a little while but make sure you distract yourself with positive things in order for time to work her magic. Do your hobbies, if you don't have one get one. Time is the only thing that works. Good luck