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Topic: your boyfriend or your bestfriend?
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 06/27/16 02:21 AM

If my best friend told me he wasn't sure about the women I was seeing, I'd think about it. If the women I was with told me I couldn't see my best friend ever again it would be over but only because I've known the my friend for more then 30 years and he's like a brother to me.

Now if, like with your example, my best friend was a women, I would still feel the same way. Basically I would side with the person I've known long and tell the one I was seeing if they felt that strongly about it they can get lost.

You do know how to make a girl feel special!
(you ever wonder why you're single? laugh )

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 06/27/16 02:22 AM



your boyfriend or your bestfriend?
If you have to choose between the two..

You mean, like, if we are all 3 in a lifeboat?

The boyfriend can be replaced.

Owww ... I hope the Krupa has a life vest!! Poor bugger ...
I feel sad now ohwell


Only if he were not the best friend also.

I figured you say that ... but now I'm wondering who is this 3rd person in your lifeboat you speak of? Wait ... maybe I don't wanna know!! laugh

lovemewithurheart's photo
Mon 06/27/16 02:41 AM
Guess I wouldn't save both...TBH

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Mon 06/27/16 05:31 AM

Your boyfriend or your bestfriend?

If you have to choose between the two..


Why do you have to choose if you can have both? Your bestfriend is a part of your life who had been there for you for a long time. If your boyfriend really loves you, he should learn to understand you, accept and respect the people you love. He shouldn't alienate you from your best friend, just because he wants you by himself alone , that would be selfishness. But if your bestfriend has other agenda which could cause jealousy and conflict between you and your boyfriend, then maybe you should keep your distance from him and make him understand that you love your boyfriend and you don't want trouble. I am sure a true friend would understand and may give way but still remain your bestfriend no matter what :)

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Mon 06/27/16 01:19 PM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 06/27/16 01:23 PM


If my best friend told me he wasn't sure about the women I was seeing, I'd think about it. If the women I was with told me I couldn't see my best friend ever again it would be over but only because I've known the my friend for more then 30 years and he's like a brother to me.

Now if, like with your example, my best friend was a women, I would still feel the same way. Basically I would side with the person I've known long and tell the one I was seeing if they felt that strongly about it they can get lost.

You do know how to make a girl feel special!
(you ever wonder why you're single? laugh )

What can I say, honesty is more of a character flaw then a prized attribute when I'm involved. Besides I'd rather have friends then lovers because in my experience (extremely limited as it is) sex is over rated.

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