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Topic: walk away or else
no photo
Tue 06/21/16 05:11 PM

if you find out your bf is someone's husband and he's even cheating on you with another women. Would you just walk away or tell the wife everything?



I would kill all of them bigsmile

no photo
Tue 06/21/16 05:12 PM
I keep telling myself I'm stronger than I think but it's hard sometimes especially when I'm all alone. I have all the texts and pictures of him sending to other woman. He denied every single lie even when I caught him with all the proof. He messed with my head and manipulated my feelings because he knew I loved him.I wish I were as strong as you are.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 06/21/16 05:15 PM

I keep telling myself I'm stronger than I think but it's hard sometimes especially when I'm all alone. I have all the texts and pictures of him sending to other woman. He denied every single lie even when I caught him with all the proof. He messed with my head and manipulated my feelings because he knew I loved him.I wish I were as strong as you are.

A quick question did you know he was married when you began?

mightymoe's photo
Tue 06/21/16 05:44 PM

thank you for your reply! I want to say something but I'm hesitant because my action may destroy a family and the kids. I never want them to suffer. But if I don't, other women out there like me will suffer. He has destroyed me, my life, and my belief. but I want to make sure it is the right thing to do. I don't want to do it just to hurt somebody.


your actions won't destroy anything... HIS actions are the cause of everything, not yours... his wife has a right to know...


so never blame yourself on these things, you didn't twist his arm and make him cheat... he did that all on his own...

RustyKitty's photo
Tue 06/21/16 07:34 PM
his wife probably knows anyway.. I would just leave; get out; split.. he sounds like a narcissist...why wait?

BreakingGood's photo
Tue 06/21/16 07:44 PM
Be the bigger person.

Simply walk away.

You do not know the situation. Maybe everybody else already knows what's going on except you. Maybe nobody knows. Either way, take care of yourself. You never know how the others may react to the news.

Keep looking. Eventually you will find someone honest, trustworthy, handsome, and FAITHFUL whom will put you above themselves. You know, SOMEONE LIKE ME. (Sorry guys, but this is a dating site so I had to throw that in there.) :wink:

no1phD's photo
Tue 06/21/16 07:46 PM
Ummm.op... if I was you I would sleep with somebody else immediately..
Give him a taste of his own medicine..
Yup.... now who should you sleep with..
Thinking thinking...lol...wink.

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