Hi, OP...

Seems to me the real issue w/porn vs. reality for men, women, transgender & all the rest is this: porn does not require another human being either physically, mentally, or emotionally. The watcher is being satisfied solely based on the merits of their own individual fantasy that is being reinforced on the screen.

Fine if you have nobody in your life to fulfill those needs. Not find when there is someone there who wants to have a connection w/you in body & mind. By preferring porn the watcher is clearly saying "this is what I want over anything else offered/available". That is a rejection & very few relationships of any kind, romantic, friendship even employer/employee can withstand rejection.

Addiction to anything (drugs/alcohol/porn/sex/food etc) is simply a preference to exclusion for that one specific thing. Sometimes it's chemical & neurological & sometimes it's strictly psychological...all times it prevents a life lived to the fullest.

IMO healthy sexual relationships don't always result in mind blowing sex every time but should never even once leave either party feeling bad/rejected in any way.

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It's very common. Especially in someone that is very sexual. He may want sex and masterbate in the same day. All men do it. Even if they say they don't.

Ya . even if he watch lots of porn he couldn't perform the same action in reality

The proof, Jack off is the best way to release fast quick and easy that is my opinion

Because he is gay

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MMmhh.... try to explane my idea.
We observe nature and wildlife and we note the role of the male; even the human male is an animal. We wanted to refine the nale with the culture and education and we got great results, but...
We must not forget the nature of the male. I have a cat...I know he is a cat and I do not have expectations that are not from his nature (he can not write, read, drive my car !!!)..well...I do the same for human male. It's not the male to be wrong, but they are our expectations.

my .02c ...
Watching porn with your partner is, IMO, a healthy part of sex..
This guy seems to have picked up an unhealthy habit and is doing it on his own and I think it has given him an unrealistic view of how sex should be between him and his partner..
I mean.. his partner in real life isn't going to behave/act/respond the way a porn star will in a porno..so it is hard to 'compete' with that..

Ummmm... what's the matter with your cat... was it dropped on his head as a kitten.?
Because
.. my cat can read write and drive my car

I would rate this as .03C worth...

Porn can be healthy. Especially for a new couple where one or both is not confidant in what can be done. It can expand horizons for intimacy in a relationship and allow them to experiment and identify what they like and enjoy. It's when one person obsess with it and ignores reality that it is a problem and they become an addict.

If they want Porn to become reality, then hit up the local red light district... you can buy your temporary porn reality there...

i would rather have a wife that likes watching it and having sex with her

they r not satisfied from their wife or any other female. they believe (men) that they know how to handle their sexual fantasy which leads to masturbation

Sometimes it's just a lot easier. There is no need to worry about the other person's needs

Every guy that I have ever known want's to have sex with every attractive woman, in their visual distance, or memory, whether in a relationship or not. Self control stops that from happening in real life most of the time.

But, fantasy is a nice release. Like another has stated, join in. That way at least you can share his real life AND his fantasy life. You shouldn't vilify him. It will only push him away to someone else.

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Just make him forget about the porn, next time you think he is watching it, just walk in with a short t-shirt and sexy panties and bend over in front of him to pick something up. He'll quit squinting his eyes at a little screen and make conversation with you instead.

I'm for this post! Course maybe as a single guy, masturbation loses it's fun even to porn after awhile. Just saying.

I don't know, maybe more guys would watch less porn if they "got lucky" ( sounds like the lottery ) more often.
Women don't like Men watching porn because it takes their one leverage away.
Men always come up with their own solutions, even if those solutions can be extreme like is the case with porn.