awww rare is a nice way to say it...other people say "weird" haha

hey weird is good normal people tend 2 b boring and not understand half of everything i tell them

You tend to lose a girls' interest if your an ignorant bastard or an asshole. You have to be a man and take care of the girl, not be an deuche about it.

well i was a very shy person untill i met my partner but if i hadnt been then i might not have got to find my angel in the first place.

im so glad i was as shy as i was cos now everythings perfect!!

shy ppl creep me out!!!

Shyness in a guy is a turn off to the ladies. It shows a lack of confidence. Women find confiednce to be "sexy", just don't be too cocky (he he j/k).

Hey Shaggy2Blaze, if you live with this phrase..."It's better to be rejected and knew how they felt, then to have been shy and never known if I could have been with her."

Being shy is very hard to overcome. But if you just take a deep breath and think to yourself "What's the worse that can happen? She say no?" You just walk off and find someone else you're attracted to.

It might be stupid, idiotic, etc etc but you won't know unless you try.

oh yes - a little shy is fine obviously, but in an extreme it definately doesn't do you any favors

I like people who can talk......

A little coy shyness ever so briefly on first meeting is...okay... but after that...

Yes, confidence works for me all the time

I go by this. If you are naturally shy, then be that. I mean, it is who you are, and if you try to act like someone you are not, then it will backfire (eventually). Being shy doesn't mean you can't get with a woman. Hell, being confident doesn't always mean you will get with a woman. But being you? That is what will attract a woman to you.

Hell, I'm a dork, was a nerd in school who just happened to play sports and who was also popular. But, I never was arrogant or all that shy. I was shy, at times, a little confident about who I was, and that is what people saw. That is what attracted girls to me. It's all about being you, IMO.

Oh! And, Nerds do rule, lol. Now, I must go play Halo3...lol

i agree with the whole 'ya never know till ya try' schpeil, but a guy or gal can be confident and bold and intrusive and that alone can be the reason a possible relationship never happens. i would say it would depend on the situation or location to determine if being shy would be thought of as cute or just flat out respectful.

I'm not shy to be mean.. just alot of stuff happend in the past and somehow it reflects on my shyness around girls.. I just don't know how to overcome it.

you got to let the past go sweetie. live for the future. what happened in the past needs to stay in the past. you just need to be confident in yourself here and now. it'll all work out for you.

I have let it go, I was just explaining how it came about and all.

shyness keeps some from expressing themselves better

Well, when I get to know someone better, I express myself more than I do in the beginning...I am just looking for help to break it so I can express myself right off the bat.

You are doing a great job by just interacting your post shag...the only way for others to learn more about you too

I'm sorry I'm really shy. No really I am. Would you guys quit laughing! Its not funny! I'm shy I tell you! Stop! I'm shy dammit!

Me too...I'm REALLY shy.