7 things this woman needs in a relationship:

1. Love - it's kind of important.
2. Someone who listens and is able to actually comprehend what I am saying to them. I'm talking about actual words here, not a perceived expectation of emotional needs.
3. I do NOT want to be your entire world, have a hobby and some friends
4. R-E-S-P-E-C-T - To be seen and treated as an equal partner not the wifey/little woman/personal chef/live-in maid.
5. Similar interests such as travel are important. It's hard to be in a relationship with someone when you don't want to do any of the things they do
6. Reliability/Consistency - It's important for me to be able to count on him
7. Physical Compatibility... yes that's a thing and yes I'm talking about sex.

All these references to "penetrating" women and women "opening" has me thinking Freud would have a lot to say about this.