Lest night I was at work and my boyfriend came as he always does, as he was a regular at the coffee shop long before I started working there. And he introduced me to one of his friends as his girlfriend. It just felt so weird to hear somebody say that about me. It has been so long since I have had a real boyfriend. It is almost like it is taking some getting use to. Is that normal? I mean it was nice at the same time, but it was just like, wow, is that really me? Has anybody else ever felt like that?

been there...
but im sooooooooooo happy 4 u!!!!!!

its normal.....especially after getting used to being single and then changing.....i've gone thru that several times

(((((((((((((((((IZ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Thank you.

Well yeah cause it changes everything when it's out there. I've felt that strange feeling when a girl introduces me to someone. All of the sudden "your on".

As well, if you really start to like him you can get hurt. So much expectation but chill and it should be alright.

Better to have loved than.....

Best of luck,

J

Whisp -- I used to cringe every time I was referred to as a "husband." Even though it was technically true at the time. Somehow, she always made it sound like "doomed walking corpse."



You'll get used to it!!

Happy for you Whisper

I know it might of felt weird but isnt it amazing?

I mean I like the guy a lot. But I don't know. Part of me is still hooked on somebody else.

well that's what taking your times about ..... but then if you take too long that person may be gone.

Being hooked on someone is tough.... I wonder if it's unhealthy at times..... I think it can be.

I think it can be. But that is why I am trying to move on. It is really hard though.

Well just know you are not the only one going through that. I actually am as well.

As long as your honest with the other person you can do no wrong. Tell him so he knows up front is my suggestion. It might make you feel more at ease if he understands where you are at emotionally in your life right now.

Love the pictures.

J

Lex,

That's the true etymology of the word. Latin or greek, I forget. Same as zombie.

lol - isnt that profile id from that elm st 2 movie- whisper to a scream...it was playing when poor jessie was gettin lucky in the cabana, when freddy's tongue pops out and....uuughhhhh, nevermind- how awful must it feel to be single for soooo long? it would help if u posted a real pic instead of a starfield and hardbodies in greyscale....im sure youre a wonderful girl- and depending on where youre located, find someone with a great attitude, has a sense of fun in him, and not one of those effing annoyin d..ks who wont let u out of his site to breathe because he thinks youre too pretty to be left alone...god- if i had a bunch of those ballcap-wearing jizzbags in a room and a sprinkler system with Hep C.....good luck, and hold a chin up- some things are worth waiting for...and everything is done for a reason...lol

Goo Goo, thank you but I am not down. And I have been on the site for almost a year most know what I look like by now. I am not looking to really meet anybody off of here. So why do I need a real pic of me? I do not see how it would help. And I have already found somebody. He may not be Mr. Long Term, but her is Mr. Right Now. And that is all I need right now.

{{{Whisper}}}

I know what you mean. I don't like titles so much anymore. Did not even when my ex called me "Wifey" although he thought it was a term of affection. It all seems so high school.

Either way, enjoy the ride.

I think it is great someone is calling you his girlfriend!
It shows he cares enough about you to let people know...


Enjoy it Whisp!