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Topic: Makeup Sex
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Wed 06/01/16 04:31 PM

you mad with someone & have so much to say to them, wishing to give them a piece of your mind & anger & other frustrations you had ...but when you meet them it eventually leads to the most passionate intimate wild love making session....

Basically what you're saying here:
"I'm mad at someone and want to attack them. Instead of handling my problems like an adult I want to vent my spleen on them. Oh wait, look at that, I can vent my penis on them. I get to throw my tantrum and get selfish pleasure at the same time."

how do you feel about that?

Some people are fine being lead around by their emotions.
Some grab a bag of cookies, others use others for selfish gratification. Sometimes it's mutual
One makes you fat, one tends to have a d-bag effect.
Either way leads to a lot of future problems.

Can a lot of issues be solved this way ?

Nothing has been solved.
It's like you're saying "my mommy wouldn't give me a cookie and I was sick of that crap, so I slapped her. Then she slapped me back. We slapped each other until we tired ourselves out. Now I don't feel like slapping her. Can all of our issues be solved this way?"








Hey it wasn't selfish pleasure...i never initiated it & i was not the only one getting pleasure....it was more like tend to business and then play ohwell

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Wed 06/01/16 04:33 PM
Edited by unknown_romeo on Wed 06/01/16 04:35 PM

sweetie can I give ya a back rub



look I made all your favorites for dinner



awww now don't be like that

you can invite your mama over this weekend if ya want to





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Wed 06/01/16 10:05 PM
Edited by peggy122 on Wed 06/01/16 10:08 PM
In theory if couples were able to use sex as a bridge or portal to conflict resolution, I think it would be very theraputic.

When couples are fighting, they forget that even though they don't like each other in the moment , that they actually still LOVE each other and are on the same team. Theoretically, the intimacy of sex has the power to remind a couple that they are still in a journey together,which in theory,could bridge the gap enough to at least start back on the same page, and initiate dialogue on whatever the problem is.

BUT IN THE REAL WORLD...

Most people are very lazy and will use sex as a substitute for conflict resolution , which is why sex wont help to resolve anything . In fact it makes it worst because , by hiding behind sex and not addressing the problem , it will be allowed to fester more and more until it erodes the relationship.






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Thu 06/02/16 08:21 AM

In a situation when you mad with someone & have so much to say to them, wishing to give them a piece of your mind & anger & other frustrations you had ...but when you meet them it eventually leads to the most passionate intimate wild love making session....

how do you feel about that? Can a lot of issues be solved this way ?


NO WAY, THE ISSUES ARE STILL UNRESOLVED ... WHEN ISSUES GO UNRESOLVED THEY PILE

UP TO THE POINT THAT LOVE GOES AWAY AND REPLACED WITH DISLIKE FOR THE

PERSON....HONESTY IS TRULY THE BEST POLICY,,,THE BEST WAY IS WITH '' I ''

STATEMENTS..WHEN YOU START OF WITH '' YOU '' SOUNDS TO THEM YOU BLAME THEM FOR

HOW YOU FEEL....smile2

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Wed 06/08/16 09:17 PM
make up sex I haven't had any. I need to fight with my partner more often when she doesn't have the baseball bat under the frigen bed.frustrated frustrated

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Wed 06/08/16 09:22 PM
Or were you referring to having sex with women with make up on.
( Like a mask or cold cream) can't say I have!sad sad sad

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