Tell me why a guy friend will tell you his feelings after he finds there is someone else in your life that you are crazy about?

because he is scared to tell you them at the time
he is frightened of the rejection
but is jealous that he has lost out to another man

I would have to agree with jeff...

Now that you have another man in your life, you are probably not spending as much time together and it probably upsets him that you don't hang out as much as you used too.....

people tend to want what someone else has
once you start a relationship people come out of the woodwork telling you they are interested

Sure its the wanting something else someone has thing but also some guys are shy and when they see a chance at loosing a chance with a girl they jump the gun alittle late....sure he had feelings and just didn't know how or when to tell you. I have luckily learned not to do that but have a buddy that is infatuated with a mutual friend and have been holding back for over 10 years to tell her....might have to give him a nudge or hook them up....tired of hearing about it...lol. Wish you the best....

I think men in general do not know how to process our feelings. When something major happens it causes us to start thinking and feeling. It is not a fun process. Then we start to realize how we feel, probably too late.

Probably what looking4u said

He's probably had feelings, but said nothing. Now he's realizing this is the last possible minute, so he's blurting them out. Probably a bit late usually though.

temporary insanity due to horniness or worse

I think in general most men have a problem relating ot there feelings.... at the same time is what he feeling real or is just because you have an interest in someone else and he is afraid of losing time with you

I'm with klc!!

Do you or did you also have feelings for this friend?

He was probably happy with the way things were as well, he likes you and doesn't have to tell you, cause you're together alot anyway. Then you get a guy and he freaks.

salvage whatever he may have had or though he had as a chance with you.