i been on dates believe or not but its hard to find gf

Because too many think, they have more time.

People treat other people like they are disposal.

They are supporting the LGBT alphabet adgenda & can't destroy their endodontist image

How am I doing ?

finding a g.f. is easy ,
finding one that is right, and is worth it, is turning out to be very hard : )

i know there are a lot of lady's out there thinking the same

<shrug>
best wishes on your hunt

they have to be real care-full now a days..and then they [ women] use there

emotions when comes to attraction everytime......men are taught to disconnect

from feelings ,,, then grown men who are connected emotionally are perceived as

weak in most cases..the paradox is the closes bond you can have between men and

women is with empathy.........

Good point. It is a paradox.
In many ways, I feel sorry for younger people/couples.
It seems as if, nothing is defined or understood, or expected or viewed as a responsibly. They get annoied & walk away.
If people don't know who or what they are, how can they know or except another? They can't. And some just keep looking for someone else to define them or make them happy. They can't.
IMO..

It's not if you have a uniform or the backing of the government.


Why are you looking for a "gf?"

It's like saying "I keep buying plane tickets. Why is it so hard to find the perfect layover?"

"GF" is just a general point between "dating" and "marriage/pair bonding," mostly useful in order to communicate that to friends and family and other people.

"I'd like you to meet my girlfriend" = "we aren't married but it's not a brand new relationship."

You shouldn't be trying to find a "gf."

If you're going to try and "find" something it should either be someone to date (to start the process) or a wife (goal of the process).

If you actually look for and find either one of those two you are far ahead of anyone looking for a "gf."

Looking for a gf is just half assing it, IMO.

It's no different than looking for a FWB.
It's just seeking the benefits of a relationship without any of that work, or responsibility, or real commitment, or risk, while you tell yourself you're looking for a "good" thing because you used a magic term like "friend" that makes it okay. "I'm not looking to get laid when I feel like it...uh...I'm looking for a friend, with must have benefits."

GF = "Uh, I'm not looking for a convenient casual relationship mostly focused on getting what I want for what I'm willing to give them for it, I'm looking for a girlfriend, see, I used that word, so it's serious, see girls? I'm serious, I'm not using you. I used the magic girlfriend rather than dating or casual word."


Unless you really are ultimately looking for a wife.
Then the question just becomes "why is it so hard to find a wife?"
Then the question should be obvious.
You keep looking for a "gf."

Have you considered trying GPS?

difficult but not impossible

A HEALTHY MIND IS FREE OF THE GOOD OPINION OF OTHERS......