I figured out that the reason am still the guy with the S&S is because I have tried my possible best in telling every lady I have come accross in my life the truth about myself.
Is there some thing wrong with telling the TRUTH?

S&S?

I believe in telling the truth also Jacksonne. At the end of the day you have to be true to who you are .

Wouldn't you prefer to wait for the one woman who can handle your truth than the dozens of women who will flock around you for the fake personna you portray?

And what is S & S?

Sad & Single?

Short & Sweet?

(Joke)

Very smart guess Duttoneer!

* It is just the way you are, accept it.
* As they say " birds of a feather flock together "

Truth

Online life ... On a dateing sight . Mostly BS.
Scammers

Google can't find everything.

So just how far ya willingly to go to know truth?

Sir it's Single & Searching

Hahaha!
No Sir
It's Single & Searching

I hold true to your word Peggy, the reason am still Single & Searching.
Trying to live a different me is some thing I find very hard to do.
Not really in a dilema as to what next to do, but just holding on.
Patience isn't a teenage trick afterall. Thanks

Well am talking about my life where I live and not on here sir.
Not every one who shows up here is a wolf in sheep clothing and am not at my very best trying to convince someone on here to believe me or not.

Thanks Jacksonne,

Your profile is good. Need a couple more pics, doing stuff, you know.
I think your a good young man. Now
About truth. Very subjective. There is the truth you know and the truth you want people to perceive.

Imo, never stop being honest. Telling the truth, can make you crazy. Am I telling you to lie? No, just maybe you are offering too much honestly at an early part of the relationship. I spoke to a friend of mine here on mingle, that I've been getting requests to start a relationship. My profile is online friendships only. I had to block about 20+ because they kept saying, yea I saw that, but l really want to meet you.

I like to be straight with people and that gets me in trouble some times.
But never be untrue to yourself. If you want to be honest, ok. But leave a little room for mystery. If not girls will read you like a book and move on. My profile is probably too dark, which is why I get some crazies.
Try to not push so hard to get your relationship going. You've posted on the forums, that is a good start. Post your thoughts, in time you will have your persona in a written record. People will read your posts and decide if they like the way you think!
A pic and a profile can only tell a gal so much. Your views on opinions make a difference. Good luck my friend.

I appreciate your wonderful words of encouragement sir.
It is with no doubt that so many profiles on here are fake and personally very much aware of the fact that some Africans do not portray a positive image of us on here as with regards to cyber crimes.
For me, I have a life free of societal pressure that's socially. I don't move with the wind.
Thanks and God bless sir.

Always speak the truth

Thanks ma'am
The truth will always prevail at the end of the day

Only when you expect to be rewarded for it.


If that were true there would be far more politicians in prison.

In terms of being on a dating site....
If don't tell the truth and if you actually meet someone....
Then it will all come crashing down....
If you have no intention of ever meeting anyone....
Then lie away....
Telling the truth just feels better....

Hi Jacksonne

You seem to be a nice young guy. So, here's my take...

First of all, how did you figure out that the reason you are still single
is because you tell the truth about yourself? Did the ladies tell you that?

Secondly, there is nothing wrong about telling the truth. It is always
good to tell the truth. Whatever it is, just lay them out in the open,
and if the ladies cannot accept who you are.. then move on.

Thirdly, how you tell the truth (whatever it is) also adds into the equation.
For example, if you tell the truth with an attitude like, take it or leave it,
.. that is a don't-care attitude, and it will not sit well with most ladies.

Fourthly, the timing is also in question here. For example, if you're
having a nice chat and out of the blue, you say "Btw, I'm impotent (just an
example, I'm sure that is not a problem)." Then you just unpinned a grenade
and Boom, the lady is gone.

So you see... it is not as simple as
you are single and searching because you tell the truth.

Good luck

Oh Dutt, that's hilarious