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Topic: Do you believe?
lookforward1980 Joined Wed 05/18/16 Posts: 9	Tue 05/24/16 11:35 AM
I believe in soul mates but I also believe they are not always the one you love

Carian22 Joined Mon 05/02/16 Posts: 6	Tue 05/24/16 10:06 PM
Maybe.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Tue 05/24/16 10:11 PM
I believe in soul mates but I also believe they are not always the one you love What do you mean?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 05/24/16 10:25 PM
I believe in Ghostbusters who you going to call Ghostbusters..lol

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 05/24/16 11:01 PM
Does anyone here believe that you have a soulmate out there? Perhaps some things that didn't workout in the past, could've possibly been a way from God to eventually lead you to your destiny & your soul mate... You can be so much in love with someone but that necessarily doesn't imply that he/she is your soul mate...I'm not sure if I really believe in it but certain situations & events in Iife can lead you to the one you meant to spend the rest of your life with in happiness and peace..... If not then fate has other plans for you but somewhat it could have been experienced by certain individuals I read that we have many soulmates. Some might come into your life at certain times. I do believe but not in just one. you do realize what you read is just someones opinion on something that is undefinable? i mean, we really have no clue if we even have a soul, much less a match for one... people should stop and think if they spend their lives looking for something that probably isn't even a "thing", their own minds will shut out people that could be a once in a lifetime thing because they didn't fit the bill as their soulmate.. Really? Of course I realize and I believe (you don't have too) that people we call "soulmates" come into our lives for a reason at the time. Maybe why some couples seem so perfect for each other at the time then they grow apart. The question was "does anyone believe" yes, and my answer was that if someone does believe, they might be oblivious to others that may or may not be their soulmate because of their own preconceived notion of that soulmate...

1Marie63 Joined Sat 09/05/15 Posts: 6737	Tue 05/24/16 11:06 PM
No, I think a great relationship lasts because both people are putting in the time and effort to make that relationship great. If you don't nurture it then it dies like anything else in life.

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 05/25/16 12:16 PM
Hi Romeo I belive soulmates do exist. Although they don´t really have to be romantic partners, they can be simply friends. And I am not sure if the length of romantic soulmate partnership has to be lifetime long. I think that the most important is the quality of the relationship, not how long they have lasted.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 05/25/16 12:38 PM
Hi Romeo I belive soulmates do exist. Although they don´t really have to be romantic partners, they can be simply friends. And I am not sure if the length of romantic soulmate partnership has to be lifetime long. I think that the most important is the quality of the relationship, not how long they have lasted. Hi. I would agree with some of that...but can't your soul mate be your romantic lover too??

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Wed 05/25/16 01:03 PM
No, I think a great relationship lasts because both people are putting in the time and effort to make that relationship great. If you don't nurture it then it dies like anything else in life. This answer resonates with me. Its not some cosmic energy keeping two people together in the longterm. It takes mutual sustained effort like Marie suggested