Sometimes women wish to have this and that...some do get what they really want only to realize what they want is not what they need....what do women really want?? It could be a variety of things but it could possibly also be they do not know what the hell they really want !

The most common ACTUAL reason why one gender or the other thinks that "the other side doesn't know what they want!" like this, isn't because they don't.

It's because the person complaining, is too impatient to put in the effort required to FIND OUT what they want.

In short, it's not that the person you are after can't choose. It's that you aren't willing to do what it takes to find out what they DO want.

Hmmm true

It's often a moving target with many people, you can chase THEIR dream and what THEY need... In the end you'll only lose part of your identity and what you need yourself if you're not careful.

Best if it jives naturally, as in, what they are, is what you need and vice versa. Don't be chasing anyones dreams for them

Hi Romeo good to see you out here...

I don't think this is gender bias, I think this could be said for people in general. Yes I have said this about men before also...

What a person wants this day, week, year, will be different in let's day 5 years. Most likely it will be the same wants just tweaked as we evolve and grow.


I have found instead to just be true to who I am and let the chips fall where they may. Because usually if it is someone that is constantly changing their wants and you give it to them. I have found that they increasingly get more demanding as time goes on. And they fail to appreciate what they do have.

If that isn't good enough then time to say good bye and move on. Wishing them well of course.

Anyone can think they know what they want
but life is fluid..it changes constantly. I think
we update the old database daily.

Knowledge is power.

pffffft
easy peacy

sometimes I want love and affection
unless I am in a mood then back off

I want to feel cared for, protected and watched over
but sometimes I wanna be an independent woman


I want to eat healthy most of time
sometimes I want junk

I want someone who can make me laugh and has a good sense of humor
unless it's something I am insecure about in which case
ya better know what those are..and be understanding

sometimes I just want you to listen while I vent, ramble and gripe
sometimes I want you to fix it for me or give me advice

sometimes I am meticulous about money and paying the bills and balancing the checkbook

sometimes I want it just because it's pretty

I agree with Soufie, there are no masters in the arts here. The mind of humans changes, moment to moment and no one is imune. Remember the Pat Benatar song? Love is a battlefield. Vive LA Amour!

Just ask.

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Amen sista.

Lol, yea sometimes it's just better to hear their struggles. Don't try to fix everything. They are capable, they just need a partner that will listen.

I have heard both women and men complain that neither gender know what they want.

I suspect that the problem is that many of us both women and men want EVERYTHING , but don't realise it or don't want to admit it,

... except for TMOM

I know what I want and have for most of my life. Does that adapt and change as time goes by; sure, to some extent.

Do I always tell someone what I want when they are demanding that I tell them what I want; rarely. I don't take orders well.

If someone is truly wanting to please me I think my interests and values are consistent enough it is not that difficult to figure out. Especially if they just pay attention the dots are drown pretty closely together.

Too often I have found the people who demand to know what you want are just as likely to demand that you agree with them that it is not what I need or should want and then they proceed to tell me what they want. lol Soooooh it is better to keep them clueless and detour away as fast as possible.

I don't know what women want!..
And to be honest ..I gave up trying to figure that out a long time ago..
All I know is.. they never really want to have sex when I want to have sex..
For instance ,last week you satisfy your woman now this week you're looking for a little payback... but no! nothing ! what do I have to do write it in the sky?.. hello !!. my turn... what I do know!.. is women can be clueless sometimes..lol.. nice to see you back Romeo

Ummm I may be wrong here but shouldn't you both be satisfying each other at the same time?

i want a real woman, where are they?

The real women are all busy with real men.

However, there are some semi-real women and completely fake ones to choose from.

The Spice Girls answered this many moons ago.....

"Ha ha ha ha ha
Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want
So tell me what you want, what you really, really want
I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want
So tell me what you want, what you really, really want
I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha)
I wanna really, really, really wanna zigazig ah"

Topic: What do women really want??

Apparently.. To be asked questions

I think what women's really want is a man or women to listen, pay attention to them , put them first, don't take them for granted just to name a few .I learn that it hard pleasing a women all the time. I don't think there are any man or women to meet all the needs and wants of a women. Only in a perfect world someone can meet all the women needs and wants.