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Topic: Pls share your thoughts: Love vs Sex
myfairladybug's photo
Tue 04/26/16 04:59 PM
do you love each other enough to wait till after marriage?


I see "marriage" as occurring far in advance of the wedding ceremony.
That the ceremony is simply a means to communicate what has transpired internally.
...So I don't know what you mean by marriage.

I don't know if you mean "wait till after the state/government/your community (and/or officiating priest) legally recognize you as a married couple" or if you mean "pair bonded via the biological process of love that is actually important to emotional attachment."

I would wait for the latter, but not for the former as it's arbitrary.




By marriage here it means the ceremony officiated by a priest, pastor or judge.

myfairladybug's photo
Tue 04/26/16 05:02 PM

It never matter what stage I was at, anytime I made the slightest hint at becoming more then friends the fallowing things would happen:

Stage 4: She starts giving me all types of reason why we can't even hang out any more (and some of the excuses have been pretty lame).

Stage 5: End of all communication (number no longer works, moves out of her apartment and quite often I never see her again).

Yep, when it come to relationships I'm just hosed.


Awwwww...there's still hope for you. Maybe you just haven't met the right girl yet.

myfairladybug's photo
Tue 04/26/16 05:10 PM

Doubt that will ever happen for me...but just do what your heart tells you and be happy.


By doubting you mean....... Can you elaborate?

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Tue 04/26/16 09:00 PM


It never matter what stage I was at, anytime I made the slightest hint at becoming more then friends the fallowing things would happen:

Stage 4: She starts giving me all types of reason why we can't even hang out any more (and some of the excuses have been pretty lame).

Stage 5: End of all communication (number no longer works, moves out of her apartment and quite often I never see her again).

Yep, when it come to relationships I'm just hosed.


Awwwww...there's still hope for you. Maybe you just haven't met the right girl yet.

Nah, I gave up on finding someone years ago, I'm just here for the forums and to waste the time of an occasional scammer.

myfairladybug's photo
Tue 04/26/16 10:58 PM



It never matter what stage I was at, anytime I made the slightest hint at becoming more then friends the fallowing things would happen:

Stage 4: She starts giving me all types of reason why we can't even hang out any more (and some of the excuses have been pretty lame).

Stage 5: End of all communication (number no longer works, moves out of her apartment and quite often I never see her again).

Yep, when it come to relationships I'm just hosed.


Awwwww...there's still hope for you. Maybe you just haven't met the right girl yet.

Nah, I gave up on finding someone years ago, I'm just here for the forums and to waste the time of an occasional scammer.

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Yeah I've met some summers here too. And somehow I've known own what their MO is so when I spot one I just ignore him or her.

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Thu 04/28/16 08:38 PM
Say baby i want girl to love & sex
Call me 9620326630

myfairladybug's photo
Fri 04/29/16 12:57 AM




It never matter what stage I was at, anytime I made the slightest hint at becoming more then friends the fallowing things would happen:

Stage 4: She starts giving me all types of reason why we can't even hang out any more (and some of the excuses have been pretty lame).

Stage 5: End of all communication (number no longer works, moves out of her apartment and quite often I never see her again).

Yep, when it come to relationships I'm just hosed.


Awwwww...there's still hope for you. Maybe you just haven't met the right girl yet.

Nah, I gave up on finding someone years ago, I'm just here for the forums and to waste the time of an occasional scammer.

___________

Yeah I've met some scammers here too. And somehow I've know what their MO is so when I spot one I just ignore him or her and move on.

myfairladybug's photo
Fri 04/29/16 12:57 AM

Say baby i want girl to love & sex
Call me 9620326630


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Sorry, I dont so that kind of thing here.

toprider45's photo
Fri 04/29/16 02:36 AM
Well i would be up for a shag after stage one if they were fit and looked good....sorry mine and probably lots of others opinionssmooched

Paul's photo
Fri 04/29/16 02:44 AM
Stage 1 or before if we can sort something out on Skype.

myfairladybug's photo
Fri 04/29/16 04:42 AM
Well guys I wish you luck in your search. :wink:

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Mon 05/02/16 02:27 PM
For me its ok no sex but i like cuddles lol

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