I receive about 60% military guy emails. So far, ALL have been scammers. I found a website that asks for the name and birth date of the military person in question. This is nothing that a person would not find out after a few emails or the first date. I'm not asking for a SSN after all. Either the guy does not want to tell me his birthday or he deletes his profile after I ask. lol

If you are an honest military guy and proud of serving your country, would you not want to be honest with your possible future wife?
The one comical response I got was the he was a "spy" and would not be listed under any govt agency. ROFL Then what are you doing on this public site? LOL

Any other ladies out there having these issues?
How do you deal with them? Just delete and/or block them?

Well honestly this is the internet I am not giving out my last name and date of birth to anyone til I have been seeing them for a while.. Sorry.. I also don't expect them to give me theirs either.


Usually all you have to do is run the pictures through an image search and it will pop up on who the picture really belongs to.

I block... report... delete..
end of story.

All members should have received an automatic e-mail concerning this issue and how to deal with it.

We are really sorry that you are running into this issue. The Site has a Report/Abuse System in place that all members are required to use to report such issue.

If you do not know how to report you can use the e-mail they sent you look to the bottom right click on Report/Abuse/Spam and follow the directions. These reports go straight to Admin. Mods do not handle Scammers only Admin does.

Another way you can report them is on their profile to the right you will see Report This User click on that and follow the instructions.

We rely on members to help us by reporting them. Many do slip by us and we need members to help by reporting.

We ask that the Forums not to be used for this problem due to we have a Report System which is noted in the Forum Rules.

With that said this thread is being locked. We ask that all Members use the Forums strictly for getting to know those that post within the forums.

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Hope this helps.

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Kristi