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Topic: Be Honset. Your Soul Mate is not in your life today and it H
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Wed 10/31/07 09:28 AM
My story:

Danny and I meet at work in 2002.
We fell in Love like a magnet. I had been working at this job for ten years. I was about to leave and then we meet. It was like if the Lord wanted us to meet.
The Lord also took us apart from eachother. It will be 2 1/2 years soon. At the time when I meet Danny I did not walk with the Lord. My true gift was not meeting Danny it was my seperation from him that I was able to get saved with God. A personal choice that I made for me. He is my best friend and my soul mate. It hurts every day. I just want to be honest. This Love that we had will never die. Any one seen the movie the NOTEBOOK?? That is Danny and I. I feel that I will not be with him again. But the best part about growth within yourself is as follows: I hope that Danny found someone so great that can Love him and respect him like he has forever craved. Love is hopeing that the one that you are still in love with will be loved the right way. Danny needs to be handle with care. I love him I dream of him. And I don't have to say bye to him. I want to keep our love alive. We were eachothers ROCK. We never had are wedding. But I know it would of been real.
Write to me your Story. I want to hear about your Love one.

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Wed 10/31/07 09:30 AM
The last word was not posted. It is AND IT HURTS.
In other words:
YOUR SOULMATE IS NOT IN YOUR LIFE TODAY AND IT HURTS.

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Wed 10/31/07 09:32 AM
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Take care sweetie, and God bless you!

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Wed 10/31/07 09:44 AM
Maybe some folks cant relate to this, but 5 weeks ago today i lost my beloved 14 year old dog Simba. She was my best friend an i miss her soooooooo much!!! Its gonna be tough tonite cause every Holloween we would both dress up and help be corner monitors for the kids in the nieghborhood. It s gonna be so hard tonight not to have her by my side, but i know she will be there in spirit!!!

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Wed 10/31/07 09:45 AM
what a bittersweet story. he is lucky to have someone in his life like you that truly cares for him and his well-being. i hope God blesses u as well. and no i haven't found my soul-mate yet, i had thought the man i was married to for almost 5 years was my soul-mate, but he wasn't..but God has a reason for everything that happens..and i just hold on to the hope that someday i will find my soul-mate.
Beccaflowerforyou

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Wed 10/31/07 09:48 AM
if she was my soul mate she wouldnt have ran off wiht a guy she met on the internet

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Wed 10/31/07 10:05 AM
Becca you made me smile so much THANKYOU. You and I will end up with someone good for us.

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Wed 10/31/07 10:53 AM
no problem at all hun! i am glad i made u happy..i just really understand where u are coming from..and yes someday, we both will find someone. :smile:
Becca

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Wed 10/31/07 10:56 AM
I know how both of ya feel. My soul-mate decided he loved heroin more than me -- can't and won't compete with that.

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Wed 10/31/07 11:01 AM
alas my story is all to sad and i dont like to think about it let alone write it,one day i hope to get over it but until then..i exist.. nothing more nothing less..tombraider

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Wed 10/31/07 11:09 AM
tombraider you're a nice guy and I'll bet there is someone out there for you to will knock you off your feet

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Wed 10/31/07 11:25 AM
thank you twitch..but all trust in people has faded but i appreciate your words of encouragement ..have a nice day

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Wed 10/31/07 11:30 AM
trust is a tough one and i'm with ya on that; i don't think my heart can be crushed again either

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Wed 10/31/07 11:31 AM
mine either..after all that happened with the ex, i have put up a HUGE wall so i won't get hurt again!
Becca

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Wed 10/31/07 11:35 AM
Part of hurting is learning what we don't want again. I just broke up with someone in September because I can't trust him.
Now I started dating someone else -- the ex doesn't like it at all and he is now making promises again that I know he can't keep. I do care a lot about him but -- hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me!!!

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Wed 10/31/07 04:18 PM
On October 14 i cam came home after a day of paintball with my friends to an empty house and a note. My now ex wife had left. I meet her 12 years ago at work. We have lived in Texas and Ohio and have lived a good life. She has not had to work for the last 7 years (our choice for her to be at home). She had 3 girls when we met they are 20, 19 and 16 now. Her ex is a POS and does not care for the kids. The middle girl is a celeb wannabe and very disrespectful. Our last 2 oral exchanges (read fights) have ended with her saying F-You **** and F-Ypu Assh*&e. I had had enough. I told my ex that is was time for her to move out. She had graduated (I bought her a $7000 car for a gift) and woked a good job. My ex and I had many discussions on this No Fights. Well I came home and the house was cleaned out. In the note it said " you gave me a choice and I chose my daughter". Whe I walked in and saw what had been done, I was floored. I picked myself up and said This Is Over! I began to move on with my life the next day. All I can say is be strong and true and be yourself. I know that my soulmate is outthere (might be you CB) and we will get together and have a good life.

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Wed 10/31/07 07:53 PM
I think I have found my soulmate, but we are not together anymore. I wish all the best for her.

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Fri 11/02/07 07:59 AM
MBCASEY. You did not share your story with me or the other readers. Is it something you wish not to talk about?? Think about it I would like to know how you feel about her being your soulmate?? AQLLA

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Fri 11/02/07 08:08 AM
John: Regarding Oct 14th.
Well nice of you to share your story with me.How are you really doing now?? And how do you still feel about her today if it is okay to ask??
Love it hurts.One thing for sure we all would like to be feel respect from are partner.If we do not give or show this it will never be a healthy relationship. I wish you all the best with love in your life from that special someone. Have a nice weekend. Do something for you see a movie or something.
AQLLA

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Fri 11/02/07 04:32 PM
Thanks aqlla. The moment I walked in the house I knew it was done. I talked to some friends and family and was assured that Things would be OK. It took a day or 2 but I have realized that this is the best for me. I do not need to be with someone that could do that. I like to be around people and talk so I joined this site and have talked to some great people. I have been able to open up and let some of that stuff out. That has helped in the healing a lot. I have been talking to a great girl I met on here her code is cherrybomb. She has been wonderful. I send her long messages but she always replies and has kind words for me. I am hurt yes, but I have to use what has happened to make me stronger and continue with my life. This was not my choice but hers and I will not beat myself up over it. I think I am a good guy with a lot to offer and if she does not want it then fine, maybe this will allow me to meet my true soulmate, she obviously was not it.

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