Topic: 15 Questions to much?
AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Wed 04/13/16 07:27 PM
The Rate My Profile (Looking for serious relationships only. With someone who actually will enjoy intimacy as part of the relationship. Last relationship I was with someone who was intellectually what I desired. But the intimacy was just not there.)

Not saying this is the rule but some of the best candidates I've meet online have almost no libido. And the ones that I find with a FANTASTIC DRIVE are either well not single or they are only about that one thing. I wondering do you Ladies and gents know of anything I can do to my questions or tweak with my profile to get the fallowing.

1)Someone who is loyal loving and well displays desired traits for a longterm relationship.
2)Someone who would likes intimacy to be a staple in the relationship.
3) My goal is to basically show the other person my hand. And start a conversation. Because well 15 questions is I feel a very big ice breaker. Verses Hi or hello...

Any and all help would be appreciated.
Thank you so much for your time.

V/r
Alpha

BHawkins's photo
Wed 04/13/16 08:09 PM
Plenty of pics, plenty of information & no one could mistake it for a scammer profile. I say be proud, you put in effort and I'd rate it highly for those reasons :smirk:

no photo
Wed 04/13/16 08:18 PM
Welcome!flowerforyou

I finally looked...it will scare off most peeps..and another certain percentage, won't even read it.

But the Right..person will love it!:banana:
:banana: drinker ((((warm hugs))))
It takes patience.

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/13/16 08:18 PM
Wow How about I welcome you to Mingle land.
I will give you kudo's for putting that much effort into the profile, and yet honestly I have to say it is way to long

A profile is a small taste of who and what you are looking for.IMHO

Best wishes in your search

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Wed 04/13/16 08:19 PM
Thank you, I was trying to put in hyperlinks to have my sense of humor come along. And nope I'm not a scammer but I still get the scammer responses. But thank you, your words gave me a boost!

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 04/13/16 09:36 PM
Welcome to Mingle. So we're you a B2 bomer pilot , Alpha? Jkd, I'm a bit of a joker. Glad your here! Join us in the forums, there pretty scammer free. And if they go in there we have a habit of piling on like an ant farm!

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Wed 04/13/16 11:33 PM

Wow How about I welcome you to Mingle land.
I will give you kudo's for putting that much effort into the profile, and yet honestly I have to say it is way to long

A profile is a small taste of who and what you are looking for.IMHO

Best wishes in your search


I thank you for the welcome. And the best part is I'm so much more than a small portion of my bio. But honestly, I don't do the shy maybe they will like me thing.

I kind of go h1ey This is what I like and don't like now that that's out of the way lets do the whole fun stuff we like. I find it easy to fall in love with what you project onto the person. Rather then have them fall for you because of you.

To the guy lucky enough to land me. He will know what he is walking into. But right now I want to remove scammers and scare off casual cyber bunnies.

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Wed 04/13/16 11:43 PM

Welcome!flowerforyou

I finally looked...it will scare off most peeps..and another certain percentage, won't even read it.

But the Right..person will love it!:banana:
:banana: drinker ((((warm hugs))))
It takes patience.


Thank you very much for the warm reception. And that is what I'm aiming for that Mr. Rgith with enough mental elasticity or fortitude and a few resiliency sprinkles to make it through 15 questions. I will exercise this patience you speak of. :) I will have the right applicant for the job eventually.

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Wed 04/13/16 11:44 PM
Lol, thank you very much. No, my career field was 3P071 fun times...bad times. *shrugs* Times were had. But I took the manicure after I was called out my name once and without missing a beat I yelled out "YOU FORGOT THE ALPHA RUNT!" And like that the desk was mine. And life was good. *shrugs* I feel it gets my touch female with a heart of gold across. Well, enough but then again military humor is different from well normal humor.

jacktrades's photo
Thu 04/14/16 12:51 AM
Welcome to mingle and good luck in your search.

mikey5360's photo
Thu 04/14/16 12:54 AM
Its a big read for sure....
But if it gets your target market...great...

Ohh there is nothing to ward off the scammers....
They wont even read that...

Actually...most guys wont even read it...
They will still send you mail asking questions even though the answers are plainly there....

Good luck here...drinker

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Thu 04/14/16 09:26 AM
Thank you, Most interesting dating site I've seen yet.

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Thu 04/14/16 09:32 AM
Lol yes, I know I want that rare combo of someone that will read. And go to the gym with me. So I guess like with most things weed out the bad. Till I get to a gem. :) Thank you for your encouragement, though.
Is there nothing you see that needs to be done with the questions?

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 04/14/16 10:12 AM
Kuddos on the profile actually think it is great~~

Ohh and .....................


AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Thu 04/14/16 05:59 PM
Thank you, so much It was and still is an honor. And I really like the support this system gives. The form/community board is an excellent idea. Kind of a nice touchstone to recharge on. Again thank you all for the feedback. I may do some tweaking with the questions to try and be more friendly to people that have. English as a second language but other than that. I liked it but that's me and having you all give me. Opinions from a different perspective has been very helpful.

mzrosie's photo
Thu 04/14/16 06:29 PM
Hi AlphaB2Eros88, welcome to M2

Oh my goodness, your profile is too long and too complicated for me so I didn't finish reading it. But to the right person, it could be really interesting and challenging.

Ok, this is really none of my business but, you are such a beautiful woman, why pick that photo as your main profile pic? You look really tough in that one.. but your other photos show you as a normal good looking woman. I love the ones where you are smiling... maybe you could use either one of those as your main pic. But, it's your call.

oh btw, English is my second language. happy

Good luck in your search.
flowerforyou

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 04/14/16 08:39 PM
AlphaB2Eros88, I wish that you would have given an advanced warning that you would be giving a test. That way I could have studied in preparation for it.

By the way, in your profile, you say, " I'm serious about you being my Player 1 in this Army of Two."

Army? You're an Air Force vet. Don't you want someone to fly high with you instead?

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Fri 04/15/16 08:45 AM
I had a two picture of me both were removed one in my cosplay The other of me at the Olympic training center for combative sports. And that was taken down because it had a mask/headgear (I assume). The cosplay was a female predator. However Its fine that the profile was too complex perhaps if you pointed out how it was to complex.

To quote the great Sun Tzu says
"If words of command are not clear and distinct, if orders are not thoroughly understood, then the general is to blame. But, if orders are clear and the soldiers nevertheless disobey, then it is the fault of their officers."

Simply put you say my instructions are not clear. Can you show me examples of where they are not clear? And how you feel they should be simplified to be easily understood.
And while I must thank you Mzrosie on the acknowledgement that I look happy or normal good looking female in my other pictures. I would like to first point out. That while happy I believe in showing all sides. I'm happy and intense at times. I've lived my life as a soldier and come from a military family. Dedication is a thing... Drive is a thing and showing what I look like with short hair verse showing what I look like with long seems natural. But I did pick that picture for a reason. But I will take your suggestion under advisement. Thank you very much for your honesty. I hope to hear back from you on the specifics as why you feel its to complicated.

AlphaB2Eros88's photo
Fri 04/15/16 08:49 AM
Lol, I like your sense of humor but my career field is law enforcement. We are kind of the infantry men and women of the USAF. But no it's a gamer reference I realize that may make less sense seeing as my Cosplay and gamer pictures were removed. But I will look into that.
Thank you so much, though.