well the person who said I seem pushy, I emailed her first asking if it was alright to im her and she said yea go ahead. So, I don't see how at all i'm pushy? Unless this person's a psycho ohh well I don't care it's her loss not mine.

Geez Dude, What did you say to her? lol
xoxoPeaches.

op

Um ok hold on just cause i am careful doesnt mean im not interested

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ok hold on -- sounds like they felt like they are b n pressured
.......to do something they are not ready to do

just cause i am careful-- they want more input to the event or ....the participants of the event

doesnt mean im not interested-- maybe their is a chance for ....something to develop in regards to the event that was
....b n pressured into participating in but not on the term
....as they are b n presented

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but hey what do i know

I don't care its her lost not mine

Gee, what a line, I am sure she will be all over you now.

Oh not only her, every girl on this site I bet cant wait.

Dude, Watch what you write its an open forum.

i think it is a good idea to be a little cautious when you are meeting someone on the internet, although i did meet this one guys a few years ago, he took me out to dinner and was really nice, just gave me a kiss on the cheek when we went our seperate ways.

Baseballfanatic, one time you say you emailed here, then you say you didn't, and last post said you emailed her. Just because you emailed her first doesn't mean you weren't pushy. If it went the way you said it did and you sent her a message back after she didn't respond for 2 minutes, I think that's being a little pushy. If she's like me she doesn't sit at her computer all the time, but leaves herself signed in.

Mike I completely agree with you. You shouldn't take her not talking to you personally, but take it gracefully.

umm baseball if I were you I would be very careful what I type in the Forums. You just let every female member that might have been interested in you that you are more important and that they come 2nd.

I hope you do meet your match, but I also hope she is careful and doesn t get hurt as you appear to think the world revolves around you.

baseballfanatic1018 said:
well in my world it is. maybe you get many responses but I don't. I need to try and get as many women I have chances with as possible.


Well... Baseball.. I have been on here for less then 24 hours.. I am really not trying. Let alone trying to hit to the stands and get a whole lot of people fighting over my ball...

I was just joining to get with a few friends. Maybe make a few more....

I'm an old man... compared to you.
He11.. you could be my kid.
I'm nothing special.. just an ordinary guy.

I'm pretty sure that the demographic is leaning way towards your end of the spectrum. You have the advantage here.

Never the less, I have talked with a few women who paged me, received some emails... had some really great interactions. All without saying a thing, doing anything to start it.

Bottom line. I'd take a good, long, hard look at your approach.
Just a thought...

Jistme, the reason you are getting so many emails an IMs is because your profile is hilarious and you are quite attractive. I feel like copying your profile and replacing mine with it!

So you're saying I should care about some girl who I don't know/don't like more then me? Yea ok..

You obviously like her alot unless this thread was just a pity seeking one ?

No, i had interest but this was before I met someone else. I like someone else now and no it wasn't pity seeking I was trying to figure out what was being said.

ok then go with other person put your efforts into her and her needs desires etc.

Well the other person likes me as far as I know... but she hasn't been online since wednesday night so i haven't had another chance to talk. i don't talk to her on here we talk on aim instead much easier.

It sure didn't seem like you had interest, even before talking to this new girl. From one of the first few posts you wrote, haha I don't know. She barely goes on. She doesn't even really live close to me so I don't know why i'm sweating it. I guess jsut because she was like the only person in my state to actually message me back haha." Sounds a little desperate for some attention (again just my opinion).

If you like this new girl, take it day by day. Don't get bent outta shape if she don't respond to you in 2 minutes time.

sounds like something i have said plenty of times

Umm you are wow I never said 2 mins I said she talked to me for 2 mins and then left maybe if you had reading comprehension you would have actually understood the situation.

what?

the op .. ya it just means they are cautious .. cuz, ya, they said it .............

IT'S THE INTERNET!!!!!!!

i need scissors
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